Big congrats on 30 days smoke free Natasha!!!!
Hope and pray that your MIL recovers fully and speedily. What a blessing that you two are great friends!!
Can a family member be with her daily to be her advocate and to stay on top of what meds they are giving her? Watch out for pneumonia, blood clots and urinary tract infection. Also, anesthesia can be hard on people that age. They don't bounce back as readily as a younger person.
I broke my hip back in 2007 and the first thing I read when researching it was that 20 to 35% die within a year after a broken hip. What!?! I was 55 at the time. It's because the demographic of people with hip fracture are elderly and many lose their independence and become really fragile health wise.
My Mom (93 at the time) broke her hip while staying with my brother out in Vegas in 2010. She got pneumonia within a week of having the surgery. I ended up flying back out there and staying at the hospital 12 hours a day for a month until she was well enough to travel back to IL with me. I'm pretty certain that if I hadn't been there...she wouldn't be here today. They were putting her on all kinds of meds that she didn't need and they wouldn't have taken the time necessary to help her eat. She has a hand and head tremor that became so bad after the surgery that she couldn't feed herself.
Anyway...I said all that to make the point that in my experience with my Mom, Dad & FIL...elderly people really need a lot of extra attention from family while in the hospital.
We've been going in shifts. DH and middle SIL were there most of last week. Middle sister had to go back home. Oldest SIL and I have taken the weekend shifts. And oldest SIL's husband is a surgeon, so he has been there every single day bcuz he can access hosp records and go thru her chart. We also have spoken strongly w/ the nursing staff about her meds. Youngest SIL will come in next week to help. SO, yes... we are trying to have someone there during ALL daylight hrs.
MIL lives in a very nice retirement center here in assisted living. Once the hosp releases her, she will go back to the retirement center in their re-hab facility. This hopefully will be better. I am really disappointed in our hospital here. The attention and care from most has been mediocre, IMO.
Chest xrays are done every AM, tho... and so far, so good there. And they have a compression machine massaging her feet and legs 24/7 to prevent blood clots. We are trying to stay on top of it all.
ITA, the elderly DO need alot of extra attention...and they darn sure don't get it from most of the hosp staff.
93! Good for your mom! Does she know that you vape? We told MIL, and she said "well isn't that just nifty. I would have done that!" And indeed the old gal would have! If she thought her health would allow it, she'd jump into vaping with both barrels blazing. She cracks me up.
ETA.. OK, sorry, no more MIL talk. I forgot this was the oldies VAPING thread!! Appreciate ya'lls well wishes.