I'm stubborn....drives my boss and coworkers batty. My husband is very proud of me, of how I have a very debilitating disease yet just don't ride that as an excuse to get everyone to do everything for me. He does get frustrated with me though as I'll be hauling the laundry downstairs and fall a bit and it freaks him out so he rants at me to have him do stuff. His phrase he uses all the time with me is "Stop being so damned stubborn!!! I am happy to help, let me help!!!"
Er....I was raised by frontier western folk. You stop working you better be dead

and I find it very hard to accept the reality of my illness. Of course that stubborn independent streak is why I can build PT heads, coil and wick my OliveR and my Reo. Gosh darn it, I'm not dead yet!!!