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Dicodes Dani Box Mini with kayfun [Lite] 2019
ProVari Classic with Dvarw (style)
Billet Box Dober with nautilus Comfort Bridge
Pico X with Ehpro True and Bubble Glass

All tips were turned by Doug at Molehill Mountain Art:
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Ebony and Pink Ivorywood
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CMD-Ky

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We need an "Interesting" button.

You know I am not a VAIN person (okay that's a lie but I'm not THAT vain) but when my husband tells me (during my benzo taper that isn't even WORKING) that I must be pregnant and he KNOWS that is not possible, a) I am going to cry.

He's like PERSON number 5 now. ONE lady even said "NO REALLY?" and CAME OVER AND FELT MY STOMACH,

I had a heath condition that caused severe bloating and sure, some went away but it was for DECADES not all of it did. I'm REALLY REALLY sick of people asking me if I'm pregnant. Its just... unfortunate for everyone especially me. Plus if five people SAY it, how many people mean it.

It's so unfair. I can do all the yoga I want and it' doesn't help. I just get muscles ON my bloated stomach.

Today has just been crappy ANYWAY. I was like, "F IT. If that's what my husband THINKS so much, I can save up for a tummy tuck in Nogales ,AZ. I actually WENT and researched clinics, that is how mad I WAS. I EMAILED some of them.

Like, I'm sure this is a TERRIBLE idea and whatnot, and it probably merits a good long talking to therapist number one for a long time about MAH FEELINGS (which ALSO costs me 200 bucks, and she gives me a discount rate because she is my spiritual mommy and has been my intermittent therapist since oh, I was 17.)

MY husband is SO EXPENSIVE. He can't be that autistic surely he was doing it to be mean? IN any cause though, I'm super ...... off. I kind of wish he would leave. When I get my actual proper benzo taper from my doc, like, I might tell him to come back after the house is roofed in August because I'm sure it will SUCK.

I should probably also delay that decision until 6 weeks after the taper (benzo tapers just make you want to die) but STILL.

So but yeah..... Maybe no benzos for a bit. I should also do some research because I would have exactly these questions of my clinic: can we not do opiates and use the nice W? Will I be able to do yoga afterward? Will anyone ever ask me if I'm pregnant again? EVER?

I am telling you IT is the worst. I bet half of Tucson thinks I am pregnant but no one talks to each other in Tucson.....

Oooh I just got a birthday card from my MIL with a 25 dollar check. It is so going in the fund.

Husband valiantly trying to act normal.

Yeah, maybe he can try that... In a month.

Anna
 

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You know I am not a VAIN person (okay that's a lie but I'm not THAT vain) but when my husband tells me (during my benzo taper that isn't even WORKING) that I must be pregnant and he KNOWS that is not possible, a) I am going to cry.

He's like PERSON number 5 now. ONE lady even said "NO REALLY?" and CAME OVER AND FELT MY STOMACH,

I had a heath condition that caused severe bloating and sure, some went away but it was for DECADES not all of it did. I'm REALLY REALLY sick of people asking me if I'm pregnant. Its just... unfortunate for everyone especially me. Plus if five people SAY it, how many people mean it.

It's so unfair. I can do all the yoga I want and it' doesn't help. I just get muscles ON my bloated stomach.

Today has just been crappy ANYWAY. I was like, "F IT. If that's what my husband THINKS so much, I can save up for a tummy tuck in Nogales ,AZ. I actually WENT and researched clinics, that is how mad I WAS. I EMAILED some of them.

Like, I'm sure this is a TERRIBLE idea and whatnot, and it probably merits a good long talking to therapist number one for a long time about MAH FEELINGS (which ALSO costs me 200 bucks, and she gives me a discount rate because she is my spiritual mommy and has been my intermittent therapist since oh, I was 17.)

MY husband is SO EXPENSIVE. He can't be that autistic surely he was doing it to be mean? IN any cause though, I'm super ...... off. I kind of wish he would leave. When I get my actual proper benzo taper from my doc, like, I might tell him to come back after the house is roofed in August because I'm sure it will SUCK.

I should probably also delay that decision until 6 weeks after the taper (benzo tapers just make you want to die) but STILL.

So but yeah..... Maybe no benzos for a bit. I should also do some research because I would have exactly these questions of my clinic: can we not do opiates and use the nice W? Will I be able to do yoga afterward? Will anyone ever ask me if I'm pregnant again? EVER?

I am telling you IT is the worst. I bet half of Tucson thinks I am pregnant but no one talks to each other in Tucson.....

Oooh I just got a birthday card from my MIL with a 25 dollar check. It is so going in the fund.

Husband valiantly trying to act normal.

Yeah, maybe he can try that... In a month.

Anna
perhaps this...

its what i use!!!

 

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Okay I did some cleaning last night and it calmed me down. So, I'm back to normal crazy now, not super crazy.

But, the day is young.

I should clean more when I'm upset like do it immediately. It really works.

Anna
Cool, come clean up my place next time you wig out.

Wait, on second thought....
 

stols001

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@Bronze you would love (and be lucky) to get my cleaning skills I was a maid when the kid was little so I could cart him along!

Plus, it's such an easy fix. You don't have to talk to the hired help. Just hand me a penny upon arrival. A carto. WHATEVER.

Wait. Why I am I bargaining to clean @Bronze 's home when like, he is TOTALLY insulting me?????

Now, I might never come. LOL.

Anna
 

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@Bronze you would love (and be lucky) to get my cleaning skills I was a maid when the kid was little so I could cart him along!

Plus, it's such an easy fix. You don't have to talk to the hired help. Just hand me a penny upon arrival. A carto. WHATEVER.

Wait. Why I am I bargaining to clean @Bronze 's home when like, he is TOTALLY insulting me?????

Now, I might never come. LOL.

Anna

That, too, is worth more than a click of a button.
 

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Wait. Why I am I bargaining to clean @Bronze 's home when like, he is TOTALLY insulting me?????

I don't think that was an insult, Anna. To be perfectly honest, I had the same thought (but he beat me to it).

I also doubt it was a serious consideration for either of us. ;)
 

stols001

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Well, I don't mind...

I'd say the likelihood of Bronze and I getting in a PM is slim though. Especially at present. Bronze vaguely scares me a bit (IDK why, COMPETENCE?) But it is No Holds Barred now, NONE.

I would say the same to DPL but I can't. DPL is NICER.

See what I mean?

(Kidding. Except about the competence part yea that is vaguely threatening. Again, IDK why.)

(This is also why I said "kidding." I might be or I might totally NOT be. LOL.

Anna
 

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I'm reminded of a story about people who worry too much. I'm pretty sure I have posted it before so just move to the next post if you heard it already.

Tim Russert wrote a book not long before he died. In it he tells a story about his dad when he was growing up. Young Tim was transitioning from boyhood to being a young man. With it came a lot of problems and worries. His Dad sensed it and asked him what was wrong. Tim told him about all his problems and worries. His dad tore up little pieces of paper and told his boy to write each worry on a scrap of paper. When he was done, dad put them in a shoe box which he placed on the shelf of Tim's closet and told him not to open it. A couple weeks later, dad came back to Tim's room and told him to take the box down and read the little pieces of paper. What Tim discovered was none of those problems and worries were problems and worries anymore.

Everyone worries and they'd be lying if they said they didn't. But some people worry too much...to the point where it is more destructive than constructive. Time has a way of sorting things out only to have new stuff replace the old stuff. It's life. It's what makes us relevant. It's what challenges us. It's what makes life worth living. It's about perspective.
 

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