S'okay I think I will have choices, um, of the 5 positions I applied for fully I have been "referred" for 4 of them and the other is in Gallup and hasn't moved.
The husband started having a fit of course. About cold, "distance from hospitals" and like, um, I think just life in general. So I got a listing of where is warm enough for him (IT WAS LIKE PULLING TEETH) pointed out for someone SO concerned about good medical care it would be nice if he went for a physical EVERY and if he was so worried about helicopter rides maybe it was time to like, quit smoking and start
vaping. Then I was like, "I don't really mean that you are like a wet cat right now, I would never instruct you to quit smoking." I also assured him I would accept no position that he wasn't happy with but as far as I was concerned, like, he needed to SHUT UP.
So I have refined my search to the lower states, and I do understand his point about like, well wanting to live somewhere "one" (uh yeah, we ALL know who is going to be the "one" bah could find other work. I was like dude, CHILL okay the more I interview with these people the better I will understand what I need to know. I can't imagine if you have arthritis in every joint, like a cold and snowy winter would be the dealio.
But IDK I guess that's what 20 years experience gets you. I am bolstered, self-esteem wise, this job has not exactly been a BED of god-darn roses. But yes, I guess Gallup has closed up
shop the application has not moved, however, it as also the one where I was getting sick and re-read it and went "are you high?" etc.
So I think it will be okay but I will have NO qualms in not going to ANYWHERE in Indiana. I thought the dude wanted rural but maybe THIS job has been terrorizing to both of us. I just figured I needed to get the meltdown out of the husband so I could know what he ACTUALLY wanted at this point.
But that's the only way you get it, I have found. I told him I HAD NO clue his boss was gonna be such a dirt bag but I NEVER blamed HIM OR the consequences but holy crud, IDK,I also told him QUITE OBVIOUSLY had I a magic crystal ball I would have stayed away forever from like, um, my company in general. But that is how it GOES sometimes so I want to interview and see what I think of several positions.
I just refused to let it beat me down because like I was like, um, NO SIR NUH UH I will NEVER let a job get in my head that way again (took me several years to recover) but I always back the hell out once I see it coming.
So. IDK. We shall see, I guess. Yoga was awesome. Possibly worth the Aspirin but I will only be able to inform you of that TOMORROW.
Dude, I hope I did not miss my Dr. Appt but oy if I did I will reschedule. I think it's ah, tomorrow.
Anna