Yes... thank you. You are spot on about my situation (and my mistake for even getting drawn into this) My biggest flaw is when I get "defensive"... try too hard to explain and yes... it's really just TMI that is not anyone's business. Nuff said.Let me first say that I'm not "sticking up" for Vaper1960. I don't know what really takes place at his house, what his Mom will or won't let him do for her, nor the type or extent of his mother's dementia and how those things affect their interractions.
BTW, mom showed me a video of my dad in physical therapy after his hematoma surgery. They said he could barely walk but mom suggested bringing his tennis racket... they threw a rubber ball and he totally was back! Didn't miss a single toss, spinning his tennis racket, moving around. I am so glad she has that video. We both miss him. My cousins called him "uncle ace"... and he was always an ace to me. I sometimes call myself "ace from space" (guitarist from KISS nickname) Hey... I went to high school in the late 70's... most of us were "spaced out" back then. When I see a photo of him, I'm not sad... just the opposite (I love those photos) I'm attempting to turn this around into a good thing. Maybe try not to assume and be so judgemental of people until you know "the rest of the story" Anyway... I really just wanted to talk DIY and vape stuff.