Yea!Happy to say I have a day I can enjoy![]()

That's wonderful Fran!!!Happy to say I have a day I can enjoy![]()

Oh yeah, I so need to steal that and post it to remind BF's mom!

...I try to play nice with her so I have access to my granddaughter but after talking to the ex last night about the situation, we've come to a united front and are just fed up with her threats and her crap...there's only so much a person can take before they blow up! 
Good morning AngelGood morning lurkers.
Oh yeah, I so need to steal that and post it to remind BF's mom!
So I wake up this morning to texts from the soon to be ex DIL wanting money from me...this girl has some nerve...she left for another man and then wants me and my son's father to both supply her with money...uh huh, like that's gonna happen!...I try to play nice with her so I have access to my granddaughter but after talking to the ex last night about the situation, we've come to a united front and are just fed up with her threats and her crap...there's only so much a person can take before they blow up!
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Well if she is anything like some others I know she won't be giving up free child careIt's mostly sunny here today, but apparently the one little rain cloud out there is right over our area right now.
And yeah her mom and dad already tell her no because they don't approve of what she's doing, so she tries to hold our granddaughter over our heads...well she's in for a rude awakening because we're not tolerating it anymore!
Yep, that's the truth...once she realizes that, she'll come around!Well if she is anything like some others I know she won't be giving up free child care![]()
I would bet on itYep, that's the truth...once she realizes that, she'll come around!
Don't most states protect the visitation rights of Grandparents to a degree??Yep, that's the truth...once she realizes that, she'll come around!
I think soDon't most states protect the visitation rights of Grandparents to a degree??
I was thinking that they do.
Of course that's if you are willing to go to court over it 
Don't most states protect the visitation rights of Grandparents to a degree??
I was thinking that they do.
Yes they do Lori, and Dale is right, it would require going to court, which means hiring a lawyer, and having worked for a lawyer, I know how drawn out and how expensive it can be...if she tries to keep us from our granddaughter indefinitely, then the ex and I can go in on a joint petition if it comes to that...hoping that we can avoid that if possible though...and once my son is back, we'll definitely back him on getting her.I think soOf course that's if you are willing to go to court over it
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Well, and I'm sure it's not like it would be with a normal relationship where there is no drama...course, what's "normal" these days?I think soOf course that's if you are willing to go to court over it
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My niece and her ex did not split (divorce) on good terms, and it's going to be a rough ride until those girls are of age.Yes they do Lori, and Dale is right, it would require going to court, which means hiring a lawyer, and having worked for a lawyer, I know how drawn out and how expensive it can be...if she tries to keep us from our granddaughter indefinitely, then the ex and I can go in on a joint petition if it comes to that...hoping that we can avoid that if possible though...and once my son is back, we'll definitely back him on getting her.

Just that setting on your dryerWell, and I'm sure it's not like it would be with a normal relationship where there is no drama...course, what's "normal" these days?![]()
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Yes they do Lori, and Dale is right, it would require going to court, which means hiring a lawyer, and having worked for a lawyer, I know how drawn out and how expensive it can be...if she tries to keep us from our granddaughter indefinitely, then the ex and I can go in on a joint petition if it comes to that...hoping that we can avoid that if possible though...and once my son is back, we'll definitely back him on getting her.