I know this is slightly off topic, but a male attorney friend of mine stumbled across this site a while ago and when my brother's life seemed like it was falling apart at the seems, I shot him a link to it. While a lot of this information is "old hat" for a lot of men....some of the men from my generation and younger would do well to read some of the articles. I sent it to my brother in the snide older sister fashion ...poking at him....but I really think it hit home with him. He's a veteran...with a lot of baggage, but I think he enjoyed the distraction of going through their articles...regardless if I was being a mean and insensitive older sister. The Art of Manliness | Men’s Interests and Lifestyle
I miss it occasionally, but there are more important things I'd like to focus on than stressing over a meal. 
I am my father's daughter in more ways than I'd like to admit. 
trying to please 8 people does my head in! My lot are getting take away (I think you say "take out") next time.