mylose64 -
Look, I understand what you're saying, I really do. Whether or not you believe that I do, fine, no problem. No matter how you look at it, telling someone they should cut down is indeed your opinion but it is a form of lecturing - I don't believe you're doing it to coddle the OP like a child, I never said that. You're misunderstanding me.
Of course if they'd stayed away from cigarettes alltogether it would be ultimately beneficial. But I am not looking at it like that. I am looking at it like this -OP started smoking again- Smokes sometimes vapes sometimes- because of vaping, OP doesn't smoke as much as they would've without vaping- and that my friend, is beneficial. If only a little bit, but of course not nearly as much had they just ceased smoking cigarettes altogether, I do understand. I, like you, was just throwing my opinion in there. I know if it were me and I started smoking again, I really wouldn't want people telling me how much I should vape or smoke. I come here for advice, sure. But I also come here for understanding and I completely understand you intentions were only to help.
The fact that you cannot see that using an electronic cigarette to minimalize smoking cigarettes (even if the minimal is a pack a day - what if instead of using the electronic cigarette, the OP smoked 2 packs a day? Would that be better than smoking one pack a day and vaping? Most likely not.) as being useful (using both at the same time for example), well I should stop trying to convince why it is, you don't see it or want to. And that's okay, as you said, the comment wasn't for me and really isn't my business.
E-Cigarettes are being used by people for all types of reasons. Some to quit smoking (though this isn't its "purpose"), some like my mother and apparently the OP to cut down their normal daily cigarette smoking, and some as a complete alternative altogether. It's not simply used for one thing only, regardless of whatever it's advertised as.
You're right, you weren't talking to me I was merely giving my opinion, which apparently isn't needed so after this post, I'll leave it alone. Once again, though you don't say it's so, I appogize if you're reading a negative vibe off of me. It's hard to express one's self in text and I really am trying to empathize with what you're saying, even if that feeling isn't mutual.