I agree. As parents or guardians, we do our best (hopefully) to educate and counsel our children against harmful temptations. I was honest with my kids. I told them that I had experimented with smoking, alcohol, and some minor illicit drugs as a teen and young adult. I told them that in hindsight, I wish that I hadn't experimented. So do as I say, not as I did.So you would have children sheltered from real world temptations before sending them off to college or out to an independent life with no tools or lessons about how to resist said temptations?
I started smoking as a social smoker, but it didn't take long before I was a full time smoker. I smoked for 35 years until I was able to quit with the help of vaping.
But kids and young adults are going to do what they do despite our good intentions. They need to make independent decisions on their own, regardless of if they are right or wrong.
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