WHAT? What a cheek! That is your own place, you should be able to vape there!
unsupportive spouses..
- Thread starter Detroit
- Start date
- th_trl_thread_readers 0
-
- Tags
- bloog vapor room
- Status
By the way, Loveridden- you have quit smoking completely, if you're not smoking, just vaping. Whatever else you may want to quit is up to you.
Did you smoke when you met him? Then...he chose to be with a nicotine addict.
We all have our little couple squabbles. But it gets under my skin when I hear about people who were happy to hook up with someone, but as soon as it gets serious, they want that person to change. Not cool.
When I stopped smoking, a lot of mutual friends said to my wife, "you must be so happy!"
She always answered that not really, smoking never bothered her.
"But surely you didn't like living with that smell?"
"He smoked when I met him. I could have chosen someone else."
So you see what I mean- going to get her something nice for xmas.
Ande
Did you smoke when you met him? Then...he chose to be with a nicotine addict.
We all have our little couple squabbles. But it gets under my skin when I hear about people who were happy to hook up with someone, but as soon as it gets serious, they want that person to change. Not cool.
When I stopped smoking, a lot of mutual friends said to my wife, "you must be so happy!"
She always answered that not really, smoking never bothered her.
"But surely you didn't like living with that smell?"
"He smoked when I met him. I could have chosen someone else."
So you see what I mean- going to get her something nice for xmas.
Ande
It wasn't a joke. I respect her but I refused to be bore down to a submissive "yes m'am" shell of a man. She actually apologized for giving me such a hard time about it because it's the only thing that I really get to do. I work, come home, go to bed, wake up, and go to work most of the time every day. It is rare for me to have a day off. This is my one and only vice I get to use and she was giving me .... about it.
She however has 3-4 "hobbies" that surpass my vaping expenses.
If you throw a frog in boiling water he will jump out, if you put him in cool water and slowly heat it up to a boil you will cook him. It takes personal reflection to realize the water is getting warm and jump out before your cooked.
It doesn't work here either......I'm a strong Viking woman I can take 'emnobody comes between me my morning vape and my rich delicious cup of coffee!
you hit it on the head! morning coffee=most important meal of the day
unless you want to deal with very grumpy lol
My wife isn't really supportive at all either, and she smokes. It might be because I've done a lot of stupid things before, so she has no way of telling this isn't stupid. Add to that when I started spending time doing a blog about the things, and let's just say things were a little... tense for a while.
She's gotten to the resigned stage at this point. Still gets grumpy about the online thing, but doesn't really grouse about the vaping so much any more. In fact, the other day she bought me a storage box for my stuff. Then again she did tell me if it didn't all fit I should get rid of some of it.
She's gotten to the resigned stage at this point. Still gets grumpy about the online thing, but doesn't really grouse about the vaping so much any more. In fact, the other day she bought me a storage box for my stuff. Then again she did tell me if it didn't all fit I should get rid of some of it.
HAHAHAHA these are the the things we think are nice, that they do for us! "Darling, look at the nice case I got you for all of your ecig stuff!" Ohh.. thanks! That is great! It is kind of small though... "Well hunny, maybe you should get rid of some stuff!"
Girls are sneaky man.. they know what they are doing.
Hahah yeah, she's sneaky alright
I actually do intend to get rid of some stuff, I have a bunch of things leftover from reviews and whatnot I want to give away in the treasure chest. I just keep forgetting to do it, and now I just refuse to go to the post office until after Christmas. Plus if I did it now, she'd get the idea that her scheme worked ;-)
Detroit, sorry about all the trouble your getting at home. My best guess is, her addiction is causing her to feel threatened. When my husband (non smoker) nagged me about quitting for 10 years I would go nuts. I couldn't handle the thought of quitting, it caused instant anxiety and stress. Perhaps your quit makes her feel pressured in this way. Shes afraid to losing you if she doesnt quit and afraid of losing her cigs.
Yes, my husband was a total @$$ and non supportive of my ecigs. The first thing he complained about was the cost even though I'm perfectaly capable of paying for my toys. After the first week of my quit he told me that I really hadn't quit anything, that vaping didn't count at all,and he was NOT proud of my accomplishment. (I was a 1-1/2 ppd smoker for 27 years) Needless to say I went off and we argued for weeks about it. Month 3 of my quit he moved on to the "they have antifreeze in them stage" and I read him every report I could find regarding the ingredients. Again we argued 2 more months when one day he said "so you quit smoking....Now when are you going to quit those?" I replied NEVER AND YOU BETTER GET USED TO IT! END OF SUBJECT! And he finally gave up, by month 7 he bought me a MOD for our anniversary and now I mix him a 0 nic juice he loves. He only vapes a mil or 2 a month but he has designated my Mini Reo as his.
Well next month will be 1 year smoke free, and I have never felt better or have been more proud of myself. He's proud of me too and after a lot of heated arguments he has accepted me as a life long vaporer. He does get jealous on occasion and thinks I pay more attention to my toys than him (not at all true ) But it did work it's self out. Don't give up and WE support you and will always have your back!
Yes, my husband was a total @$$ and non supportive of my ecigs. The first thing he complained about was the cost even though I'm perfectaly capable of paying for my toys. After the first week of my quit he told me that I really hadn't quit anything, that vaping didn't count at all,and he was NOT proud of my accomplishment. (I was a 1-1/2 ppd smoker for 27 years) Needless to say I went off and we argued for weeks about it. Month 3 of my quit he moved on to the "they have antifreeze in them stage" and I read him every report I could find regarding the ingredients. Again we argued 2 more months when one day he said "so you quit smoking....Now when are you going to quit those?" I replied NEVER AND YOU BETTER GET USED TO IT! END OF SUBJECT! And he finally gave up, by month 7 he bought me a MOD for our anniversary
and now I mix him a 0 nic juice he loves. He only vapes a mil or 2 a month but he has designated my Mini Reo as his.Well next month will be 1 year smoke free, and I have never felt better or have been more proud of myself. He's proud of me too and after a lot of heated arguments he has accepted me as a life long vaporer. He does get jealous on occasion and thinks I pay more attention to my toys than him (not at all true
) But it did work it's self out. Don't give up and WE support you and will always have your back!
Sorry to all for the non-supportive loved ones that you have to deal with.
Bad news: We have to stockpile because of organizations that want their cig tax dollars back.
Good news: The more family members who get on their cases to leave us alone, the sooner we can stop stockpiling.
Bad news: We have to spend money this year, when times are tough
Good news: We can ride through next year when times are tougher, if the orgs get off our hineys.
Bad news: We can't take our loved ones out to dinner this year due to stockpiling expenses
Good news: We can take them on a world cruise next year when we don't have stockpile anymore because our loved ones fought like mad and we won our freedom to vape. We'll be able to vape a whole year's worth of stockpiled goodies and treat our loved ones to a world of wonder.
Best of luck to all of us.
Bad news: We have to stockpile because of organizations that want their cig tax dollars back.
Good news: The more family members who get on their cases to leave us alone, the sooner we can stop stockpiling.
Bad news: We have to spend money this year, when times are tough
Good news: We can ride through next year when times are tougher, if the orgs get off our hineys.
Bad news: We can't take our loved ones out to dinner this year due to stockpiling expenses
Good news: We can take them on a world cruise next year when we don't have stockpile anymore because our loved ones fought like mad and we won our freedom to vape. We'll be able to vape a whole year's worth of stockpiled goodies and treat our loved ones to a world of wonder.
Best of luck to all of us.
Perfect anwser to that question! as long as they dont ban it (and i cant find a black market for it) ill be vapin forever im sure
she has been much better about my vapor the last day/2. i just ordered 2-5ml 1-10ml and a 30ml bottle of juice off vaporbomb today and she didnt mind at all, she handed me her CC and smiled (i dont have a CC i just give her cash lol)
my wife has started to say that the vapor stinks, and if i breath near her she says phew it stinks that stuff.. i say oh what does it stink of? she says "butterscotch" LOL yea its awfull isnt it pet! bloody butterscotch stinks! crazy...
I think it doesnt smell at all what do you guys think?
I think it doesnt smell at all what do you guys think?
Some flavors can be very strong, I did have a tobacco blend I was using for a while but I got constant complaints about the smell so I gave it up.
that just sucks.. my partner smokes so if she ever says one of my flavors stinks i think my reply will be "good for you,so does yours"
She's feeling threatened. Plain and simple. It's like when two fat people are together and one loses a bunch of weight, the other quits being supportive and tried to sabatoge the new lifestyle. The thinner person who is losing weight and getting healthy can't understand why the other isn't supportive. It's human nature. She's resentful of your new habit because it takes away from her and the common bond (of smoking) that you shared. I'm a woman too, and while I feel for her (and understand why she is feeling and acting this way).. she needs to understand she's gonna eventually lose you if she keeps this up.
I don't know how big your balls are.. but this may be the "litmus" test.
Last edited:
I think you should look in to the hobby of competitive gas passing
She will then quickly learn to love the smell of butterscotch
lol
My wife took several weeks to get onboard with vapeing. Didnt want much to do with it at first. Time for adjustments. At a slow but reasonable pace in relationships always works better than abrupt ultimatums.
thanks for the replys yall but its been resolved a freind gave me a ego for her she agreed to try it an she likes coffe and vanilla so far im not getting reamed for buyin liquid now lol
a freind gave me a ego for her she agreed to try it an she likes coffe and vanilla so far im not getting reamed for buyin liquid now lol- Status
Similar threads
- Locked
