Let me know how long you’ve been
vaping, and what life improvements have you seen as a result of it.
I've been
vaping for nearly 10 years, and it helped me stop smoking completely after about 6 weeks of dual use, both cigarettes and vaping. I had my last cigarette with morning coffee on the Saturday after Thanksgiving 2012.
There is that old saying that when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. I really wanted to stop smoking. I'd tried the nic gum without success, and cold turkey didn't work, though I did quit while in college, cold turkey, but it lasted for two years before I resumed smoking, which shows the level of entrenchment of that addiction. I knew someone who died in her sleep while taking Chantix, so I wasn't interested in trying the pharma approach.
So in 2012 I'd done a visualization that was offered to me by a friend who is an interfaith minister, something like this: Picture yourself seated comfortably before a fire. Your eyes are covered by a blindfold, your hands tied with velvet cords. These bindings represent your voluntary enslavement. The warm fire symbolizes both your determination, and your peace. In this moment you are choosing to become free, in control of your life, your habits and your urges. As the feeling of your freedom and your own self empowerment begins to expand, the blindfold drops from your eyes. You look around and see the signs of your freedom, ashtrays gone, cigarettes gone, your friends and family smiling at you across the crackling fire, congratulating you for choosing to free yourself. Their loving support expands your own will to be free, and the velvet cords loosen around your wrists and fall away, unbinding your hands, unbinding your soul. Now imagine that you rise from your place by the fire, a new nonsmoker.
A very short time after that, I was visited by old friends out of town. They were about to celebrate one year free of cigarettes because of vaping. They let me try their vapes and offered to buy me a starter kit. I didn't want them to spend on me in case I should fail, so I declined the starter kit. After they left, I hunted YouTube videos about vaping. I enjoy passive video learning. The presenters were all so positive and helpful, about the ins and outs of equipment, liquids, finding, buying, usage, storage and care, transport, and ALL about being free from cigarettes.
I ordered a starter kit and began experimenting while still smoking. My friends' counsel was to put no pressure on myself, but just to experiment, try flavors and have fun. I took their advice. After about six weeks, I realized not only that I liked vaping far more than smoking, but that I really couldn't afford both habits, so I chose a day to have a last cigarette. I'd be lying if I said it was an easy day. All day while I vaped like mad, there was an angel on one shoulder saying "keep going, you're doing great, almost there, almost free", and a demon on the other shoulder saying "nobody is forcing you to stop, have a cigarette if you want one, try again tomorrow". I persevered.
The next day I awoke as a new, forever nonsmoker, and have not wanted a cigarette from that day to this. Again, that was November 2012. I didn't gain weight from stopping cigarettes by vaping, but I'd never been happy with my weight and eating habits. In 2018 I realized that if I'd gotten free of cigarettes, I could get free of the overeating demon too. Once again, YouTube helped, where I followed a presenter who had her viewers with her on her weight loss journey, who made it fun and interesting to create recipes, eating tricks and tips, little helpful secrets, mild workout sessions, long walks. I guess things happen to me in November around my birthday. One door opened to another door that opened to a gate, where an old rusty lock dropped off, opening onto a beautiful valley of hope and joy. I made improvements, got more active, lost weight, have kept it off, took a hiking trip in Europe in late 2019.
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