Yeah, back to home or West. Yeah FC, I feel like I'm going
through a rerun. This time, with my uncle, it's tougher than with my mother. She at least had a broken hip that needed healing and pretty much gave up trying to work
through the pain of walking again.
My uncle has spinal lumbar stenosis which gave him severe pain in his one leg and general pain in both, plus 4th stage kidney failure, not to mention some level of dementia. When the doctor informed him that his driving days were over, he couldn't understand it. I think he finally is accepting it, but that doesn't stop him from battling it in his mind.
I think my inner reason for buying the Can Am is to run away. He gets put into permanent residency Wednesday which will move him from his current private room to either a semi or tri-care room. He's said if he can't drive, he may as well stay there, but I can see him changing his mind after the move is made. I should be able to
buy two weeks for him to adjust with this trip.
I had every hope that he could return to his place for a period of time and was more than willing to pick up the load of getting his groceries done, doc visits made and other errants, plus lining up someone to do some housekeeping. However, with the meds he's on (Percocets being one), I was concerned about timing and quantity as well as his trips to the Legion which was part of his routine.
Hopefully, it will all work out.