ok, I wasn't going to comment, but I am going to because I have seen so many sides of this issue, Criminals are not on welfare, families are. If someone in the family is involved in criminal activity, it affects the entire family including young children. If they are put in foster care, they are abused and unloved, thereby growing up to be problem adults. I am a former foster parent that hated the system fought against it and got screwed by them. I finally gave back the kids I had to their parents (unhappy that pedophile got his kids back) I never took any others again. They lie and tell you you will get to adopt them and then take them away from the only happy place they ever lived, now they prefer people in the business to take kids for $ over perspective parents. Or worse, they put them in "homes" warehoused till they reach 18 yrs of age with no one to have loved them.
As far as the other element of people discussed, they are emotionally wounded people that have turned to a numbing experience not much different than an alcoholic, I was always into sugar, so while not a problem for me, I kind of get it. The people I know that are in that element have the most miserable lives. They are like someone that wants to lose weight generally hate themselves for it, they want to lose "weight" too! If they have kids, while a huge part of me says take them away, remember, I desperately wanted children, the truth is not as many people are willing to take them as you might think, so they will either wind up warehoused somewhere, or worse in an abusive home. This is the reality. So, while I hate that in the state of Florida, right on the application for Department of Children and Families, people with kids are entitled to cash,and medical help. I can only get food, and while I hate to think someone with that problem can sell their food stamps away to get the money for supporting that problem. I would hope that you remember that some of them have children in the home and that they need the help and support of a community. It kind of helps the kids, someone knows where they are.
Having children to stay on the welfare program, might be what they do, I can't say for sure. these days it isn't as easy as it was years before. But for those that are already here, we have to be a little more careful of how we treat them or discuss them. There is no easy fix.
There are 100's of people living in the woods and surrounding area of Daytona. They get dropped off at the bus station here from other states after leaving Jails especially from Tennessee. I know this having worked in the hotel industry here. The jails offer them two or three places to go. I know because of the hotel area, that is who is working at many of the hotels on the beach. In MacDonald's, Burger King. and other fast food places here in this area. At the community college there is a club for the homeless that are attending college, many are former addicts that are trying to recover. I heard this while Nephew was waiting to go into the advisers office. This country doesn't like to admit the dirty little secret but these are the realities.
I was once like everyone else and thought the same things, I would like Sec 8, we have it here. I have a three year wait. But, families with kids come first. and I am ok with that, better than living in a hotel for them and certainly better than the woods. There but for the grace of god go I. If roommate decides he can't help me financially, I would have to join them.
I hope I don't offend or put people off that I consider my friends, but you have to really see it up close to get what it's about. I also have to go to many of the same food banks and places to obtain help, I have talked to these people, they are very much like you and I , they have the same hopes and dreams that we have, lost their way, they are trying to find help. Maybe not all of them, but a good
many.
Sorry this was long poor grammer or spelling. rant over and back to my Sock Hop last song!