I'm trying to show her the positives of vaping, and trying not to pressure her. She wants to quit smoking. But she doesn't want to quit smoking. We all know what I mean.
There is a different way of looking at it that I find works. Forget about using vaping to quit smoking. It is irrelevant at this point.
Tell her that the first step is to give vaping a shot, it's something she may enjoy.
Help her find a flavor profile that she likes, fruit, baked goods, whatever.
Do not pressure her to quit smoking. Pressure begets pressure. If she is pressuring herself, help her to relax about it. Just learn to vape.