We could argue for hours, and days, and I think it is apparent we are both head strong in our own opinions. I have NO desire to convince anyone that "I" am right, or "You" are wrong. Let's just agree to disagree.
For the record, I also disagree of your take on Thomas Jefferson. I too, am versed in American History, and I honestly don't see how you pretend me was all for big government.
Taken from Wiki:
"While Jefferson believed most persons could not escape corrupting dependence, the franchise should be extended only to those who could. His fear of dependence and patronage made Jefferson dislike established institutions, such as banking, government, or military. He disliked inter-generational dependence, as well as its manifestations, such as national debt and unalterable governments"
Of course, that is from wikipedia, but I challenge you to open up the history books and start researching yourself. He wasn't this pro-government, pro-federal over state guy you seem to think he is.
edit: Also, our ACTIONS themselves are interconnected to everything around us. Thomas Jefferson did what all men do....he made decisions within the framework that the challenges presented themselves in.