I had to look that up. That is rough sounding alright. I was in a car wreck when I was about 23 or 24. I had whiplash, the real deal. It was about 3 days before I had any pain though, which was strange. I wore that stupid looking neck brace. I don't think it did any good. I was in severe pain for a year with it. The military doctors only gave me pain killers, and did nothing else. Once the year was up, they even took that away. The pain was so bad I couldn't stand it.
So I started to see a chiropractor. Luckily I got a good one. I had limited movement in my neck. We started sessions 3 x a week at first. I still had pain for a while, but it got better. After my x-rays and all the tests they do, he said it is a good thing you came to me. Your neck was so bad that you would be throwing up from the pain, when you got older. I saw him for almost a year, and I was much better.
Sometimes I have no pain in the neck, and sometimes I have a good deal of pain. It comes and goes. I do know the feeling of pain everyday, and it will drive you crazy. People just don't understand unless they have dealt with it. I still have limited range in my neck. I think it is full blown arthritis, and has been for a good while. I am sure it is nothing compared to what you've dealt with. I can handle some pain too, so if I say I hurt my family believes me.
The only time I've gone to the hospital for pain was for a terrible back ache. I felt stupid going but the pain became unbearable. Come to find out it was kidney stones. I deal with those periodically. Anyway Opinionated, I am so sorry you are having this issue. Look up Dit Da Jow. I have used that with success as well. A friend of mine used to make it. It is a secret recipe that was given to him. He cannot get all of the ingredients anymore. I have a small jar that I use for emergencies. Never put it on a cut, or get it in your eye, or you will be sorry! Do some research on it. I don't know if it is good for your particular problem though. Look into it, if you want to. If you think you want to try it, talk to your doctor.
So I started to see a chiropractor. Luckily I got a good one. I had limited movement in my neck. We started sessions 3 x a week at first. I still had pain for a while, but it got better. After my x-rays and all the tests they do, he said it is a good thing you came to me. Your neck was so bad that you would be throwing up from the pain, when you got older. I saw him for almost a year, and I was much better.
Sometimes I have no pain in the neck, and sometimes I have a good deal of pain. It comes and goes. I do know the feeling of pain everyday, and it will drive you crazy. People just don't understand unless they have dealt with it. I still have limited range in my neck. I think it is full blown arthritis, and has been for a good while. I am sure it is nothing compared to what you've dealt with. I can handle some pain too, so if I say I hurt my family believes me.
The only time I've gone to the hospital for pain was for a terrible back ache. I felt stupid going but the pain became unbearable. Come to find out it was kidney stones. I deal with those periodically. Anyway Opinionated, I am so sorry you are having this issue. Look up Dit Da Jow. I have used that with success as well. A friend of mine used to make it. It is a secret recipe that was given to him. He cannot get all of the ingredients anymore. I have a small jar that I use for emergencies. Never put it on a cut, or get it in your eye, or you will be sorry! Do some research on it. I don't know if it is good for your particular problem though. Look into it, if you want to. If you think you want to try it, talk to your doctor.
Sometimes we don't want to know things. I was friends with the nurse at the pain clinic when I found out I had crps. The diagnosis was a second opinion diagnosis from one of the best doctors in the country. His diagnosis was quick and dirty, and he never once explained what I had, just said you have crps and walked away, setting me up for treatments at the pain clinic, ordered prescriptions etc etc . .
Well, the appointment at the pain clinic was the next morning and overnight I had decided that I would just have Susan explain to me the diagnosis. When I went to the pain clinic she walked in the room with tears in her eyes, and very gravely she said, you have crps. Because of the tears in her eyes I just nodded.. then she said so you know there is no cure right? That this is for the rest of your life... then she started crying..
Well hell if what I had was so bad to make her cry for me, then I sure as hell didn't want to know what it was! I never asked as a result, it took me 6 months to get up enough courage to actually look it up and find out more about the disease..
Hahaha. I was chicken.
But, while sometimes it's hard to find the courage to become informed, I think it's worse not knowing at all.. I think the feeling of fear that came over your hubby was same as Susan's tears for me. But in the end, it's better that WE know, and that we dig up that courage to face it, what ever it is.
In the end as you said, what he saw was before all the treatments. . Let's be positive and face a positive future. There is a fight - and you can't fight an enemy you don't know.
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