How about a vaping dating service?

[Faylool]

Stick to your style. Not many men out there that can do that with the right confidence but they are needed IMO badly! I'm not interested when the guy wants me to take all the responsibility for making things happen. The key word is responsibility. Guys who are looking for something for nothing are common. It's sad

Well I didn't think I'd give advice on this subject on here but... I've never been soft on my approach to women. I think a timid approach is almost always going to fail. In my experience women seek strength and sometimes even over the top or border line rude approaches. My advise is always be prepared to crash and burn, but go in guns blazing.

Instead of asking her out to coffee, tell her you are going to take her out on a date and ask her where she wants to go. Better to find out than string yourself along.

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[D4rk50ul]

Stick to your style. Not many men out there that can do that with the right confidence but they are needed IMO badly! I'm not interested when the guy wants me to take all the responsibility for making things happen. The key word is responsibility. Guys who are looking for something for nothing are common. It's sad

Well I'm married now but it's just my personality. Confident but not cocky, and I speak my mind. I am also known as a loud obnoxious a.... Typical Aries.

Thanks for the honesty sometimes women like to say they want one thing but in reality it's the opposite that's really attractive to them.

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[Ryedan]

Yep, the last thing you want to do is trap yourself into playing some character you are not. Play to your own strengths. That way, if you actually have a good date, you had a good date being yourself!

I totally agree EddardinWinter. There is never long term gain in not being yourself.

 

[Faylool]

Yeah, all the good ones are married Dark Soul..ha ha. Joking. Aries. That's supposed to be my match according to some loooong time ago reading. Leo. I no longer give astrology very much credibility but it's interesting how often such descriptions were kinda true more often than not and hey, anything to help understand us crazy people get along is fine with me.
I am willing to bet most the people on this odd thread are married too! If your not very happy about it, think again....its a real crap shoot. Make the best of what's in front of you and there is all kinds of ways to do that without compromising your principles. Just kinda have to wait for the right moment and don't let lass. Like when a teenager actually communicates normally with their parent? You go...yes,,,,now don't blow it...just listen, respond -no judgement, listen some more, keep it light... Right. Seduction is 99 % cerebral for most women ( ok I exaggerated )
Just coming off a 5 day baaaad headache from tooth that got pulled this AM and I do not get to vape until it heals better. See how long I can go. Should be easy. I snuff and snus.

 

[D4rk50ul]

I married a Scorpio, read that match and laugh because its 100% accurate. Then again if it wasn't a challenge neither of us would be into each other.

 

[Faylool]

Yeah. I think challenge for some people is much better than for other people. My ex was a Scorpio! Ha ha. It was this un needed power tripping thing that materialized. We both lost! Neither of us remarried. Should have done what I could do so well and kept on doing it and not take everything so seriously or personal or expect more than a mere mortal is capable of.
I have a challenge going now. We are supposed to be ex BF/GF. I see him 3 times a year, loooong hauler, and I'm doing the deal with what you've got thing because I not want him to leave me and I'm realign him back in folks and the sad part is he isn't even what I really want either and never here but he remains - all I've got and the only animal loving man I had and him being gone so much is what helps us you talk to any trucker about the nightmare of keeping a good relationship going
Nite all. (. :

 

[SilentScreams]

Yeah. I think challenge for some people is much better than for other people. My ex was a Scorpio! Ha ha. It was this un needed power tripping thing that materialized. We both lost! Neither of us remarried. Should have done what I could do so well and kept on doing it and not take everything so seriously or personal or expect more than a mere mortal is capable of.
I have a challenge going now. We are supposed to be ex BF/GF. I see him 3 times a year, loooong hauler, and I'm doing the deal with what you've got thing because I not want him to leave me and I'm realign him back in folks and the sad part is he isn't even what I really want either and never here but he remains - all I've got and the only animal loving man I had and him being gone so much is what helps us you talk to any trucker about the nightmare of keeping a good relationship going
Nite all. (. :

I may not be the best to give relationship advice but, Never settle because your lonely. That in my opinion is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. I almost did that once and I tell you I am glad I walked away when I did. She turned out to be a psychopath.

My biggest problem is my pride. I'm a leo and full of pride in the things I do and say. It tends to get in the way especially if I know I'm right in a situation, my pride wont let me just say "ok your right" and leave it at that. But, I've been working on that...

 

[D4rk50ul]

Yeah. I think challenge for some people is much better than for other people. My ex was a Scorpio! Ha ha. It was this un needed power tripping thing that materialized. We both lost! Neither of us remarried. Should have done what I could do so well and kept on doing it and not take everything so seriously or personal or expect more than a mere mortal is capable of.
I have a challenge going now. We are supposed to be ex BF/GF. I see him 3 times a year, loooong hauler, and I'm doing the deal with what you've got thing because I not want him to leave me and I'm realign him back in folks and the sad part is he isn't even what I really want either and never here but he remains - all I've got and the only animal loving man I had and him being gone so much is what helps us you talk to any trucker about the nightmare of keeping a good relationship going
Nite all. (. :

It seems like when in a relationship you will never find anyone else again, then when you get out you have this feeling of freedom for a bit, then you realize you will be just fine. People come and go, you will know when you find the one you can't live without and you will act accordingly without even trying.

 

[Worzel]

It would be amusing to see a vapers' dating service! Pics of mods and bods all over the place.

 

[Worzel]

Well I didn't think I'd give advice on this subject on here but... I've never been soft on my approach to women. I think a timid approach is almost always going to fail. In my experience women seek strength and sometimes even over the top or border line rude approaches. My advise is always be prepared to crash and burn, but go in guns blazing.

Instead of asking her out to coffee, tell her you are going to take her out on a date and ask her where she wants to go. Better to find out than string yourself along.

Sent from my Nexus 4

I totally agree with the guns ablazin'! When a guy tries to act all cute and shy, he comes across as wishy washy or a con artist. Some guys try tough and silent. They come across as not giving two $#|£$. Come up with humor, or intellect followed by a "lets go on a date, anywhere you want" I am pretty much game. My hubby is goofy, random, and outright. He won my heart!

 

[D4rk50ul]

Not all women are "please save little olé me from big nasty men", some are more predatory than they care to admit

Do what comes natural to you, no reason to act like someone else for 6 months then wonder why it falls apart when both your representatives leave the scene.

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[EddardinWinter]

Yeah, there is no right and wrong to it.

Some people really dig loud, forward, direct. Some really like quiet, thoughtful, subtle. It all depends on what each person likes. I was always the more direct type, some girls like that, some hate it. It really did not matter. I didn't need all girls to dig on Edd, I was only interested in one or two. Three at the absolute most...

 

[Faylool]

That sounds like a hint. I'm a little tired of mod pics but the RBAs still interest me

It would be amusing to see a vapers' dating service! Pics of mods and bods all over the place.

 

[glasseye]

Yeah, all the good ones are married Dark Soul..ha ha. Joking. Aries. That's supposed to be my match according to some loooong time ago reading. Leo. I no longer give astrology very much credibility but it's interesting how often such descriptions were kinda true more often than not and hey, anything to help understand us crazy people get along is fine with me.
I am willing to bet most the people on this odd thread are married too! If your not very happy about it, think again....its a real crap shoot. Make the best of what's in front of you and there is all kinds of ways to do that without compromising your principles. Just kinda have to wait for the right moment and don't let lass. Like when a teenager actually communicates normally with their parent? You go...yes,,,,now don't blow it...just listen, respond -no judgement, listen some more, keep it light... Right. Seduction is 99 % cerebral for most women ( ok I exaggerated )
Just coming off a 5 day baaaad headache from tooth that got pulled this AM and I do not get to vape until it heals better. See how long I can go. Should be easy. I snuff and snus.

Have you ever taken a look at Chinese astrology? I'm pretty sure I don't believe in either of them but the Chinese version does best/worst mates based on birthday, so not everyone is a Pisces (me) or a Capricorn or whatever. In Chinese astrology I'm a Water Tiger and it turns out my ex was an Evil Monkey or some such thing. OK, it was some kind of Monkey anyway. According to that he was the last person who should have been my mate. Maybe there's something to it after all. lol

 

[HoinkDouglas]

this thread made my day

 

[Paradox28]

Have you ever taken a look at Chinese astrology? I'm pretty sure I don't believe in either of them but the Chinese version does best/worst mates based on birthday, so not everyone is a Pisces (me) or a Capricorn or whatever. In Chinese astrology I'm a Water Tiger and it turns out my ex was an Evil Monkey or some such thing. OK, it was some kind of Monkey anyway. According to that he was the last person who should have been my mate. Maybe there's something to it after all. lol

I think that in chinese astrology I'm some kinda rooster or chicken...I'd rather be a lion! lol

 

[EddardinWinter]

I think that in chinese astrology I'm some kinda rooster or chicken...I'd rather be a lion! lol

You don't need astronomy to tell you that you're a lion.

 

[Faylool]

Ha ha "astronomy" he he. Uhhh I'm a water dragon/Leo with Snake rising. Means I'm cunning and practically need to form a cult to have any followers! I've mellowed with age and the humility of all my mistakes. (. :

 

[SilentScreams]

Going chinese I'm a monkey....

 

[EddardinWinter]

They don't even have a Lion. C'mon, man. How good can anything be that has no lion!?