Thanks, Keyzy! She was a wise woman...we talked a lot about me being gay in the 5 years between falling in love with Blaize and her death. I lived in a very conservative part of Ohio but my grandma always said that love doesn't know gender. She loved Blaize and was just happy that I was happy. I only wish that she could've lived long enough to see us together permanently...but I know she's with us. Your kids are very lucky to have you for a mom. My parents never liked me (which is why I was raised by my grandparents from the age of 14 months old) but they're coming around more and more.