SOBER VAPERS - Vaping Sober - ROLLCALL!

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Please keep the discussion and/or debate focused on the philosophical and personal perspective on definitions of sobriety. There cannot be personalized attacks on any single individual poster or the thread will be closed. Debate and/or question the contents of their opinion, not their character.

This thread was posted to the Outside because the Outside is for both debate, and controversial or taboo topics that would not fit into the other forums. This thread is for those who have been or whom are currently addicted to mind altering substances, and whom are now clean from those substances or seeking a life in which they are clean from those substances; Whom have begun vaping rather than smoking tobacco cigarettes. This thread is for these people to talk to each other in an open format. There is no specific topic. Debate is allowed. But attacking someone personally is not allowed here. This thread was created for the side of the Outside that is for taboo subject matter, not specifically the side of the Outside that is for debate.

To get this thread back on tack, (not topic, as there is no topic) I have quoted those posts that pertained to sobriety from page 18 to the current page:

This is a tremendous thread. Glad I read it at work.
And the exclusive forums (AA,NA, etc) have their purpose. But they often exclude such an eclectic group as we found here.

Thread title is Sober Vapers Roll Call
I'm a 25 year sober vaper
this is a derailed thread
resume

Anyone that knew me 26 years ago would agree wholeheartedly
The prognosis wasn't great in the halfway house I started in.
If I can stay sober anyone can.
A day at a time
I needed to be beaten into a state of reasonableness as the big book puts it

Congrats, I'm at about 4 years or so going on 5. I doubt I would have lived much longer if I didn't quit. Liver shut down on me, yellow eyes and bloated feet the whole nine yards. I picked the name quiter for that reason. I just quit drinking and then smoking. Although I still smoke a couple times a year at parties. I can't seem to enjoy them without at least one vice. I left this thread early on because of how it fell apart. I guess I was one of the lucky drunks. It didn't cost me my job or my marriage, my kids are all happy and healthy, never did drink and drive so no problems with the law, but it was killing me all the same. I decided I wanted to stick around and see my great grandkids born more than I wanted that next drink so I quit. The first couple weeks were pure hell. I didn't know that you could get that sick from NOT drinking. Trying to get some sleep and waking up with the bed just soaked in sweat was something else. I'm not saying I have it licked either, just that I still want to see the future more than I want a drink. One of the hardest days was when I say my doctor and he said my liver tests had finally all come back normal. I wanted to celebrate so bad and it would have been awful easy to justify just one little drink now that my liver was ok. I never thought of myself as a drunk because I rarely was, I just drank beer all day and didn't get a buzz on at all until after dark. I didn't hit the liquor so I couldn't be a drunk, right? C'est la vie.

This was a something that Plagued me in the Past.
I would get some Time and then that Stinking Thinking would creep back in that One Drink would be OK. It was a Vicious Cycle.

http://www.e-cigarette-forum.com/forum/groups/clean-sober-vapers.html
Not the op but this thread has helped a few find their way to the above group in spite of the derailment. I, for one, would appreciate it if it could stay open for a while unless you think it really out of hand.
 
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As far as definitions, to me the word "sobriety" has to do with alcohol. The term "drug free" covers the rest. The word "addiction" is variable: "I am addicted to ice cream".

No doubt. I think we've all agreed at this point that most people consider "sober" to equal "not drinking." Nothing wrong with that.
 

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I kinda like this part...

"Sobriety has more specific meanings within specific contexts, such as the culture of Alcoholics Anonymous, other 12 step programs, law enforcement, and some schools of psychology. In some cases, sobriety implies achieving "life balance".

Wow... Sobriety can have Different Meanings based on Specific Contexts.

What a Unique Concept.
 

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Sobriety - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I thought so too and was certain that's what Wiki would say. Darn, I'm wrong again. It's OK, I'm used to being wrong.

Look at the top of the page for the disambiguation link to "sober." Sobriety and sober are not the same thing. Not that it makes a difference at this point as we've already established a working definition for this particular thread...
 
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I kinda like this part...

"Sobriety has more specific meanings within specific contexts, such as the culture of Alcoholics Anonymous, other 12 step programs, law enforcement, and some schools of psychology. In some cases, sobriety implies achieving "life balance".

Wow... Sobriety can have Different Meanings based on Specific Contexts.

What a Unique Concept.

Sure. Because I totally argued that only one definition applies.

See, the question at this point is why are YOU dragging this out even further? You'd rather try and score points on me than let the thread get back on track, evidently. Very mature, z.
 

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Sure. Because I totally argued that only one definition applies.

See, the question at this point is why are YOU dragging this out even further? You'd rather try and score points on me than let the thread get back on track, evidently. Very mature, z.

I'd Didn't Post or Reply to You Surf.

Quit Personalizing everything in the OUTSIDE.

And Quit saying that People are Out to Get You. That Litany is Getting Old. It is Starting to sound like Paranoiac Ramblings of the Guy I see Every Mourning Pan-Handling at the Bus Stop.
 

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I'd Didn't Post or Reply to You Surf.

Quit Personalizing everything in the OUTSIDE.

And Quit saying that People are Out to Get You. That Litany is Getting Old. It is Starting to sound like Paranoiac Ramblings of the Guy I see Every Mourning Pan-Handling at the Bus Stop.

Non denial denial. You really think that helps your cred? Pretty amusing. Keep grasping, z. One day you're sure to actually catch something!
 

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Was it Bull Durham, where the pitcher wore a garter belt for luck, and then when he stopped wearing it, or lost faith in it, it stopped working for him? I think AA is a bit like that.

It's painful to change paradigms and give god a shot. Most of us fight it. But when few options exist, you'll consider it. And then it might work. If it doesn't work, not much has been lost. When it does work, you can rebuild our life.
 

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I have no idea if AA works I didn't use it to quit. I just stayed away from booze and even my friends who were drinkers until I hit a point where I wasn't craving the booze so badly. As for the legal issue I don't know how it works everywhere but around here it's not mandatory but it's a choice, that or serve more time. If it really doesn't work it doesn't make much sense does it? I have to say that over the years I know of at least a dozen people who have chosen AA over county lock up. Not one of them wanted to quit so it didn't work for any of them.

I don't think forcing someone to get help will work. AA might help some though. If nothing else it's a support group so that when people are about to relapse they have someone to call. Again though it wouldn't work if they don't want it to.
 

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I have no idea if AA works I didn't use it to quit. I just stayed away from booze and even my friends who were drinkers until I hit a point where I wasn't craving the booze so badly. As for the legal issue I don't know how it works everywhere but around here it's not mandatory but it's a choice, that or serve more time. If it really doesn't work it doesn't make much sense does it? I have to say that over the years I know of at least a dozen people who have chosen AA over county lock up. Not one of them wanted to quit so it didn't work for any of them.

I don't think forcing someone to get help will work. AA might help some though. If nothing else it's a support group so that when people are about to relapse they have someone to call. Again though it wouldn't work if they don't want it to.

That sums up ECF for reformed smokers too, yeah? I wanted to quit but ya'll sure did help. I did however need to read several religion threads but I'll get over them.
 
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