Hello my darlings,
I've been an absentee for many weeks now and have missed y'all. Caught up only for the last 10 pages or so, and howdy and best wishes to everyone and the things each is going through, like TD with the upcoming child's surgery and Karen trying to come back from not feeling well, and Shari and the contractor blues. HUGS to all of you!
I was absent due to a really demanding operations manager consulting job that I desperately needed, first 4 months of this year. Boss was a bit of a disaster, we worked by remote, and he has thoroughly-diagnosed anger management and other issues. I tried my best to be impervious to his tantrums, especially because I really could never understand what was making him angry. "Stay calm and professional," I said to myself.
Well, in hindsight, I probably should have blown up at him bigger and better than he did, the first time he did it -- because perhaps, my tolerance was giving him "permission" to continue being irrational. Anyhow, by end of April, I finally just agreed with his blow-up and said "yep, fine, I'm packing up the equipment and sending everything back to you now." And did. And now once again dammit I have no income. HATE that part!
Anyway, vaping got me through that rather upsetting crisis without smoking, which is a further testament to the value of vaping for us addicts. An old college friend of mine quit smoking last year without vaping, and in a recent mess involving her mom (she too is an only child) being in the hospital, she has gone back to fulltime smoking.
My point is, no matter whether it's smoking-and-vaping, or vaping-only, VAPING HELPS!