I will be honest friends. I am kind of at a loss for words. I am continuing to share what's going on with WTAs, my new setups, etc, but it all seems so petty when I read about the major things going on. Surgeries, mourning, loss. I feel bad every time I post because of the major things being discussed in the thread.
But on the other hand, I know that "business as usual" can be a respite to all of that. I don't really have any words right now to address any of the major issues. But my condolences to all. Doesn't matter whether you are dealing with a house remodel (I am included myself in that one) or a loss or a major surgery. Don't even matter if you are dealing with something simple as having a slip and smoking an analog and feeling a bit defeated. From the heaviest to the lightest, my condolences to all.
So if I seem to be just going on with all the day-to-day hubbub, don't think my heart doesn't twinge at every reminder of the pains and stresses that everyone faces. It does, it really really does. And even all the moreso I am emotionally affected because I am doing home remodel myself, I have a sister to whom I am currently a little bit estranged and someone very dear to me that I know is facing a major surgery.
So my compassion is there. My heart is truly touched by this thread. And I have a literal, serious emotional reaction deep inside when I read all this.
Just sometimes the best thing to say at such times is, "hey did your favorite team win this week?" or "did anyone catch the Doctor Who premier? What do you think of Capaldi as the new Doctor?" Then again, sometimes it isn't. And being on the outside, one is never sure if it is time to cry with the person or offer something to distract a wore out mind from all the emotional pressure. Especially when you aren't looking them in the eye at the time.
To be honest, in the last few days, I have thought about posting more than I actually have posted.
I, too, am here for anyone who wants to PM. I am even available for a phone conversation if you just need someone to talk to.