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    Hiya Dale :wub:

    How is paco adjusting to the new surrounding ?
    He’s doing pretty good, getting a little mischievous.
    Several times he’s tried to run off with my house shoes and he just finished trying to gnaw off a button on my gown. I thought he would be way too old for those behaviors :unsure:
     

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    Good evening lurkers :wub:

    Thank you, Dale, SMT and Joey. Time to get comfy. We, along with my mom/dad, brother/wife, went to a brunch buffet this morning. It reminded me of your Sunday breakfasts, Dale. I haven’t seen so many choices in a long time. I was good and didn’t overdo it even though I wanted to go back for more. Then we all went and played two rounds of mini golf (7 people took 3.5 hours :shock:) , left there for dinner reservations with Dh’s mom/dad and we just got home. It was a really nice day.

    Awww Dale, glad he’s settling in ok, sorry about the mischievousness and no nap. Glad you got to spend time with your son and family.
     

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    Good evening lurkers :wub:

    Thank you, Dale, SMT and Joey. Time to get comfy. We, along with my mom/dad, brother/wife, went to a brunch buffet this morning. It reminded me of your Sunday breakfasts, Dale. I haven’t seen so many choices in a long time. I was good and didn’t overdo it even though I wanted to go back for more. Then we all went and played two rounds of mini golf (7 people took 3.5 hours :shock:) , left there for dinner reservations with Dh’s mom/dad and we just got home. It was a really nice day.

    Awww Dale, glad he’s settling in ok, sorry about the mischievousness and no nap. Glad you got to spend time with your son and family.
    Good evening Sara :wub:
    Sounds like you had a great day, I’m happy for you :) DS and wife gave me an Apple Bees gift card :ohmy: Haven’t been to that place in years, got way too expensive for anything other than maybe an anniversary.
     

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    Good morning lurkers :wub:

    Sweet!! Applebees. Enjoy!!

    Dh picked up 2 hanging flower baskets for our moms. We do every year…..same greenhouse, same flowers. I remember when they were 2/$15. This year, 2/$36. They’ve also succumbed to shrink flation. I was shocked at the size. :blink:

    Hope everyone has a lovely day!
     

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    Good morning lurkers :wub:

    Sweet!! Applebees. Enjoy!!

    Dh picked up 2 hanging flower baskets for our moms. We do every year…..same greenhouse, same flowers. I remember when they were 2/$15. This year, 2/$36. They’ve also succumbed to shrink flation. I was shocked at the size. :blink:

    Hope everyone has a lovely day!
    Good morning Sara :wub:
    That’s terrible that you can’t even buy a plant for a decent price :(

    Whoo boy I made up in sleep last night :lol:
     

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    Just got all caught up from my hiatus. And what a wonderful hiatus it was!
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    Be happy for me that I did not have a chance to get on here and post. heehee

    It was different than I had pictured the weekend to be. I have not been able to adjust the seat on the lawnmower so I could comfortably mow. I had to lean forward because dad was 6'2". I thought we would do something fun but Saturday after I fixed him a big breakfast, he told me to go bring the mower up to the driveway. He adjust my seat and changed the seat weight to mine. I cannot believe the difference and can't wait to mow again to see how it does.

    I still had Cindy's pressure washer and he asked if he could clean it up because he saw me cleaning it with Windex to get the blood off of it from Dad's last mowing fall. He pressure-washed it and it looks like a brand-new mower even though it is 17 years old.

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    He sawed off the Dogwood limb that I ran up on with it so that will not happen again. So now I just have to be careful around the clothesline poles. I thought that was pretty sweet.

    After working all afternoon on that mower, he grilled me a ribeye steak that I think was the best I had ever eaten. Could have been because dad has not let me grill out in about six years. He asked me how I like my steak and he brought it in absolutely perfect. Ummmm It was awesome.

    You know how I fixed the back porch up to be all "me"? It started to thunder and I told him we were supposed to get some rain. As soon as it started, he took my hand and said come on and he took me to the back porch. He opened all the windows so we could hear the rain and even the door and wanted to lay on the floor and watch the lightning with me and that is exactly what we did. That was a first for me. My ex never did anything remotely that romantic. If I had asked him to do that he would have just laughed at me. The few older men I have dated have been very good to me but this is the first won that was sentimental. It was quite refreshing, to say the least.

    He drives a Peterbilt for a living and I still can't believe he thought it was worth renting a truck and driving 8 hours one way to spend two days with me.
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    I hate to be selfish but I wish he could have stayed a little longer. It could have just been a magical weekend. Who knows where this could go or even if I want it to go anywhere? I have made it very clear that I do not want a long-distance relationship or any type of commitment yet and he said that's fine with him and that he ain't going anywhere. We will see. He is talking about how he wants me to visit him in Florida. It is a 630-mile trip and I have never driven that far. I want to fly one day but not today. I guess time will tell. It would be a new adventure for me.

    His sister has stage 4 COPD and was in intensive care. They had to induce a coma for a couple of days but when they tried to take out the ventilator, she could not breathe so they put the ventilator back in. The family decided they would try it again but if she could not breathe, they were going to let her go. Sad situation. Dan called one day last week and sound so sad. Almost in tears and I talked to him like I would anyone and told him not to give up. I have seen my dad come off of one after a week and them not expecting him to pull through and I never gave up hope. Well anyway, they took her off Sunday and she is breathing on her own and they were supposed to move her out of IC today. He called me about thirty minutes after he left to tell me what happened and to thank me for keeping him grounded. I know it could have gone either way but I also know I could have consoled anyone either way too. I love a happy ending!

    Well, there I went again and wrote a marathon post. Sorry, but I had to tell someone about my wonderful weekend.
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    Of course, I told my cousin and aunt at supper yesterday. We went to my fav restaurant and I want you to see what I ate every bite of.

    burger.jpg Omgosh, is that a burger or what? It was scrumptious.

    Okay, now I will let you rest.
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    Thanks for reading.
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    Good evening Dale, Joey and Rat2 :wub:

    What an exciting weekend, Rat2. I’m so glad you had an awesome time. Mmm that burger looks delish!!

    I don’t know why I was shocked at the flowers. Next year, I’ll have to make my own. Except I don’t like playing in the dirt lol

    Meh kind of day! Hope everyone else had a nice one!
     

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    I guess I was tired from my exciting weekend. Did not leave the house or put on clothes. The only thing I accomplished was I planted my two little cherry tomato plants and put new water in the hummingbird feeders. Is that a lazy day or what?
    Finished up my Buffalo Dip I made for Dan. I sent a container with him so I would not eat it all. I even took the leftover baked potatoes and mashed it up with all the fixins'. I made him Banana Nut muffins too and sent those. I sort of regret I sent the half steak I could not hold. It would have been good on a salad tonight but he thanked me and said he had a wonderful supper tonight so that made me happy.

    I think he is a very nice man. He is also the only man I have dated that I had not know for 40 years and has his hearing.
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    He is only 5 years younger than me which is okay with me.

    He sure is staying in touch with me through the phone. I have never talked so much in my life. At least I am learning where states are and what is there. He has been to every state in the U.S. He better be glad his company does not allow company on the road. I would be seeing lots of things. I wish he could take me because I think it would be weird to be so far up and see everything. He keeps one of his motorcycles in Ohio so he can go visit his family and friends in Pennsylvania. He did a video call and took me around with him on his motorcycle. It was fun but not as much as it would be riding behind him.

    I have not ridden a motorcycle since I was pregnant with my daughter. That was 35 years ago. Boy would I love to ride again. He said something about parking one of his motorcycles here so we could ride when he visits. That would be sort of cool but we are not at that stage yet.

    Riding a motorcycle is the first memory I have with my family. I can remember riding between Dad's legs and holding on to each of his hairy arms. I loved it. I was probably around 3 years old. When I was a baby, he was supposed to be watching me as he polished his bike. He said cars were honking at him and waving and he would just wave back. Finally, he realized what they were waving at. He said I had crawled out into the middle of the street and was waving at people.
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    Sheesh! Me and Rodney Dangerfield did not get any respect. heehee

    Hope everyone has a restful night and a wonderful day. :wub:
     

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    Thunderstorms are predicted for this afternoon so I am going to get off my behind and go get a much-needed walk. I have slothed around enough. My exciting weekend is over but I am already thinking of what I can do next.
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    Life is good.

    I hope everyone has a wonderful day. :wub:
     

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    Thunderstorms are predicted for this afternoon so I am going to get off my behind and go get a much-needed walk. I have slothed around enough. My exciting weekend is over but I am already thinking of what I can do next. View attachment 995541 Life is good.

    I hope everyone has a wonderful day. :wub:
    Good afternoon Rat2 :wub: I just took a short walk with Paco, I’m terribly out of shape and he doesn’t seem to have much stamina either so it’ll be good for both of us.
     

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    Good evening lurkers :wub:

    Work was ok. ;) The pollen is really bad this week, we desperately need some rain to knock it down. My navy blue car has a nice pollen yellow tinge to it :lol:

    I love that you two went for a walk :thumbs: Dale. Awwww!!!

    When will you see him again, Rat2? Hope you were able to get your walk in. I can feel the excitement buzzing off of you :)

    I have fallen off the health wagon over here. Too much unhealthy food over the weekend carried into the week, no motivation to walk, even for *just 5 songs* :lol: ah well maybe tomorrow.

    Hope you all had a lovely day!
     

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    Good evening lurkers :wub:

    Work was ok. ;) The pollen is really bad this week, we desperately need some rain to knock it down. My navy blue car has a nice pollen yellow tinge to it :lol:

    I love that you two went for a walk :thumbs: Dale. Awwww!!!

    When will you see him again, Rat2? Hope you were able to get your walk in. I can feel the excitement buzzing off of you :)

    I have fallen off the health wagon over here. Too much unhealthy food over the weekend carried into the week, no motivation to walk, even for *just 5 songs* :lol: ah well maybe tomorrow.

    Hope you all had a lovely day!
    Hi Sara :wub:
    I didn’t accomplish much today, just didn’t feel like it. :?:

    Yes the pollen is terrible :( We had quite a bit of rain last week but as soon as it quit the pollen was back :glare:

    It wasn’t much of a walk but better than nothing I guess :blush:
     

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