The REO Lounge - Part II

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Mudflap

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Hi Tripp! :wub:

Hello, my friend.
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Hello JJ.
Bummer Andy. Well hopefully he can find the root of his issues so as to get some help somehow.

thats just it, he wants no help. he see's nothing wrong with living like that.
i had to physically stop him from getting stuff back out of the dumpster, and it was absolute garbage
i have not cried like this since my father died
 

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thats just it, he wants no help. he see's nothing wrong with living like that.
i had to physically stop him from getting stuff back out of the dumpster, and it was absolute garbage
i have not cried like this since my father died

Well, I'm sure you've given him the "my house/my rules" mandate. Maybe his situation will humble him enough to be open to your guidance and direction. Not a damn thing wrong with shedding tears. It just shows you care.
 

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thats just it, he wants no help. he see's nothing wrong with living like that.
i had to physically stop him from getting stuff back out of the dumpster, and it was absolute garbage
i have not cried like this since my father died

Oh Andy....I sure wish I could give you a big squishy hug that you probably don't want right now. :wub: Perhaps this is the bottom jumping up and smacking him in the face. I know what I said last night seems cold & calloused ...and with our kids I still stand by it....but I know my answer isn't the answer for everyone. I wish I had some wisdom for you. :(
 

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Well, I'm sure you've given him the "my house/my rules" mandate. Maybe his situation will humble him enough to be open to your guidance and direction. Not a damn thing wrong with shedding tears. It just shows you care.

he was allowed to bring ONLY his laptop, TV, and clothes. i even took the door off of the hinges to the bedroom
so that i see in every day. NO WAY will this filth invade my home
 

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The part of Canada that doesn't get enuf Snow :(
thats just it, he wants no help. he see's nothing wrong with living like that.
i had to physically stop him from getting stuff back out of the dumpster, and it was absolute garbage
i have not cried like this since my father died

dont feel bad for any tears its ok :) Hopefully he can come to admit he has an issue whatever it may be. Sometimes there is something else underlying or on top that causes that sort of stuff. I was bad when i was using and it took my admission that I was an addict to begin the change. I hope for you and him that he can come to grips with it :)
 

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Hi Lisa :D Hope you are enjoying your long weekend, it was Father's day here on Sunday so we had the whole family round last night. I hate cooking for 8 too stressful, guess that means I wouldn't make a good chef lol

Not yet (((Tripp))) and thank you for helping get one. The mail's been a bit slow lately for some reason. It won't hurt though because it will give me more time to check on the best way to put it all together, there seems to be lots of variations so I'll go for majority rules first I think.
 
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