That was the first time she'd ever done anything underhanded like this.....and it caught me totally by surprise, I was stunned that she'd do something like that. I won't ever do anything to "get back" because I'm smart enough to know that's the road to hell, and I've been there, and done that. I think she didn't smoke at all for the first couple days, but she's back to smoking now.
She told me a couple days ago that she's "done." So ok, agreed, I sent her a note yesterday that I'd found a couple of houses i wanted to look at, and found a lawyer, and wanted to get divorced asap, and asked her if she knows a better lawyer, and if she was planning on putting up any kind of a fight, and told her what was on my mind about dividing everything...and I can only hope you understand that I will be giving up a tremendous amout of what I've done with my life by walking away with nothing more than my own vehicles and a few household items, and leaving all the rest for her, and I've already spent most of my life savings on her and hers, but I don't really care about all that very much, because all that crap is just more stuff I'd have to "maintain" and I would rather travel light, and I can't take any of that .... with me when I die, so it doesn't matter to me. But I haven't gotten any kind of response for about 24 hours, and I have no idea what's on her mind right now, so now I'm waiting to hear from her. Thanks for your support, all! Have a nice day!
I also told her I wanted my other e-cig back if she still has it, but no response, but my
vape mail should be here today, and I plan to get it from the mailbox before I head off to work!