My apologies. It is not my intention to make anyone feel less than.Most of your outrageous comments I let roll off. Not this one. As a survivor of a very violent first marriage NEVER joke about this EVER.
It makes it feel to someone in that situation that they are an object to be made fun of at a time when their self esteem is already horribly low. It makes it very hard for them to feel they are worth anything better than the horror they are living.