I get that ciggies have all those disgusting chemicals and worse in them, I do understand that. But if you are just taking all that out, but still dependent on Nicotine, you ARE still a smoker, am I wrong?
I read through six pages of this thread. I don't know if you ever got what you're looking for. I do believe I know what you mean though.
I don't smoke any more. & I don't feel one bit guilty about vaping.
Once I quit smoking, by picking up dipping. I did feel guilty about that, because I was trading one bad habit for another. Instead of abusing my lungs, I was abusing my gums, lips, jawbone... People who didn't dip were bothered by me dipping almost as bad as they were if I were smoking right in front of them. The smell of my breath, even without a dip was nasty. The bottle I'd spit in, or the nearby ground I would spit on.... pretty nasty. Even the wad of gunk I'd throw in the trash would keep on giving long after I left the room.
But vaping... I'm not affecting the people around me one bit, even if I were to vape right in front of them. Most of the stuff I vape have a very nice aroma & doesn't linger very long. There are no cigarette butts, or wads of nicotine, or spit, or any leftover by products whatsoever.
I am still addicted to nicotine & I don't think that's a good thing. One of the main reason I wanted to quit smoking (even though I loved smoking) was that I didn't want to be addicted... I don't care how "good" nicotine may be for you, I don't want to be addicted. I got myself down to 7 cigarettes a day, took me several years to get there, but I couldn't get lower after several years... until I started vaping.
At least with vaping, I can manage my nicotine intake a little better. I vape 0 nic most of the time now. I've got a rig set up with 11mg nicotine that I hit from time to time. I've only been doing this for about a week & I think I'm going in the right direction. I'm constantly hitting my vape, the 0 nic, I'm probably at 3~5 ml/day. But I only hit that 11 mg pipe twice yesterday (already hit it once today)... so, we'll see.
I suggest if you are having "personal" issues with vaping, start cutting back on the nicotine. It's obviously an issue for you, as it is for me. Some people don't think of it that way & there's nothing wrong with that. Vaping will greatly reduce their risk of lung cancer & they're not going to rot their jawbone away. To each his own. Do what you need to do & don't worry about what those snobby people call it.