Thanks.
Are you taking a break from tutoring for the holidays?
Yes, we're going away to Philly to the family for a few days. I ordered a book for my nephews that hasn't arrived in the mail yet. I sure hope it comes tomorrow.
Meanwhile, I wrapped all the other gifts. Did you ever try to wrap a case of wine? It's bulky and heavy! But I got it done. It's a variety of wines from several local wineries for my brother and sister-in-law. That's what I give them every year. And every year, it's a b**ch to wrap! I left it till last, being the procrastinator that I am, and then just did it. As usual with procrastinating, it wasn't as bad as I was making it out to be.
Yesterday, I tutored. I had a talk with the boy's mom after my talk with him. I think she just thinks he's lazy and looking for excuses. Anyway, whatever she said or did, all the kids had better, more careful homework this last time, and the boy was especially cooperative. Did I detect a note of falseness in his cooperation? I'm not sure. He was bending over backward to be the "good kid." I heard a quick warning from the mom when I picked them up about not getting tutoring anymore if they couldn't cooperate. You'd think if they don't like being tutored, they wouldn't cooperate, just to get rid of me! That's what I might have done as a kid. Then again, maybe not. When I was 10 or so, outward defiance against adults was unheard-of. I probably would have done just what the boy did: try hard for a time or 2. Then I would have gradually gone back to my old ways, so I'll be looking for that.
Meanwhile, I'm trying to make the reading more interesting for the boy. He said he wants to "play with atoms," and I'm not sure what that means. At one point, while we learned about Einstein, he learned about the atom bomb and how it devastated Hiroshima and Nagasaki, so maybe he'd like to learn to blow something up. (I have a copy of the
Anarchist's Cookbook. Do you think he'd like reading that?) But I have given him reading on atoms in general, and next time, we'll learn about atomic energy, how splitting the uranium atom makes electricity.
They got their Christmas gifts yesterday, since I won't see them again till after Christmas, and the boy liked the book I got him, which he had asked for. It's the 7th in the Wings of Fire series, which is about dragons.
The girl was absolutely thrilled with the box of crochet stuff. I got her everything she needs, and she was really excited when she saw the scissors. Now she won't have to ask to borrow her older brother's scissors. The youngest one doesn't have scissors yet, so I think for his birthday, he'll get those ones with a rounded tip. Other stuff, too, of course.
While I tutored the others, the girl read the instructions and tried to start to crochet, but when it came to her turn to be tutored, we did the regular worksheets and then, instead of reading, I taught her to make the first loop and to chain. She was getting it but still clumsy. I told her to keep practicing till it became easy, and then maybe she'd want to try learning a single crochet from the book. But I expect that over the next week, she may mostly work on getting easy with the chain stitch. When I left, she was still in the study room working away at it.
The new girl got a book on origami. She seemed excited about doing the whale, and she wanted to know where the instructions were, so I showed her how to use the index. I noticed that, though it was in the W's, she started looking at all the letters from the beginning, so we'll have to work on alphabetizing at some point. Looking through the book and learning about the index was educational, but I soon had her put the book aside to look at after the lesson, and we proceeded with the usual part. She is a hard worker, and she is learning fast, but we need to work a lot on sounding out words. It's an ongoing project, and for all the kids, its a harder concept than you might think.
I'm eager to see where her older brother is and why he needs tutoring, too. No one has told me much about it, but I'll figure it out and see where he's at in his work. That'll be Saturday, a week from this next one. I ordered a book from Amazon,
Green Futures of Tycho, which is sci-fi for young readers. I looked at a few sample pages and it looks easy enough for all the older kids. Not the 5-year-old, of course. I want to start the new boy reading this to me and see how he does, then maybe use it as our reading every week or give it to him to read independently, depending on how he does. Then the boy who has trouble will get it, and then the girl. The new girl will not get it for quite a while, I think. She is a quick learner, but I'm just venturing into 3rd-grade stuff that she reads with my help. She's in 3rd grade. But consider that in September, she was reading at 1st-grade level, and you know how far she's come already!
Tomorrow, I'll be looking for that book I want to give my nephews. It's a book of skeletons of all sorts of animals. I got it out of the library, and all the kids I tutored were interested. That makes me think it'd be interesting for my nephews. It's out of print, so it was rather expensive, but it's such a neat look, I think it's worth it.
Skeletons: An Inside Look at Animals: Jinny Johnson, Elizabeth Gray: 9780895776044: Amazon.com: Books
What do I do if it doesn't come by tomorrow midday? Go buy other gifts for them? Just not give them anything under the tree and send it later? Actually, under the tree, they get so much stuff it might get lost in the shuffle, and coming later might make them really consider it.