It’s actually been the opposite. Prior to the catio when I let him out every day (after being confined for
three weeks) he gradually worked his way up. Initially it was just a few hours a day. Then all day. Then he got up to 2-1/2 days over the course of 2 weeks. Post-catio this is the third Tuesday I let him out (after a two month confinement). First Tuesday he was gone 8 hours. Second Tuesday 6 hours. Now 38 hours and counting.
Ugh. Unpredictable little jerks. I wonder if he has a 2nd home. And if he does, did they build him an epic catio?!?
If I sound like an old mother hen, it’s because I am one.
True story:
At the little elementary school I attended, when I was in 3rd grade there was a first grade boy who tugged at my heartstrings. I became his big sister and protector. One day at lunchtime recess some boys were picking on him. I marched into the midst of them and fixed that.
The 2nd grade teacher was on playground duty that day and she was quite unhappy with me for tossing those boys about. (No one was hurt, just put in their places.)
After recess she marched into our classroom and up to the chalkboard. Angrily grabbed the chalk and wrote, “Lori Schlener is an old mother hen” — and marched out of the room.
All the kids laughed. But the old gal had insight! I’m still the same.
We feed them, we pet them, we give them a safe place to sleep; sure they are independent - in their own minds.
Good point! But they would say they independently snookered us into it all.