No vapemail for me today. I have the same thing happening (order number but no shipping number). Hope it turns out okay.
So I've spent a peaceful hour-ish repairing/recoiling/replacing tanks on all the mods that my husband tipped over yesterday, (including my coffee cup, which was full) well, he just overturned the entire thing. I'm glad most stuff was fixable..... but I remain bemused, like,
who does that? What unearthly reason would ANYONE have to do that?
Gotta admit, I understand combat PTSD from a clinician's perspective, and I understand it is
super hard, but as a spouse, (I have no ability to therapize my own family thank goodness) I'm left kind of bemused. I've TOLD him and told him to not hold in all that annoyance, and literally EVERY time he wants/needs something done, I do it.
Yeah but 13 mods and setups and my coilmaster kit just THROWN on the ground because he was having a fit. He's destroyed stuff before, but nothing really
expensive or something I cared about.
It kind of feels personal at this point which is why I'm considering a divorce. He knows how valuable they are to me, that I've spent a lot of time preparing for the vacopalypse, etc. My pdoc wants me to get him to see a therapist, but his last one fired him.
I am willing to see how things go, but once my kiddo's out of here, unless he can get a handle on the narcissism/anger management, I don't believe I can stay. Fortunately, my mom let me live in her basement after my last divorce. I really don't want to do it again. But, I also can't tolerate such an event again, so I packed a bag to leave (temporarily) if necessary, everyone says you should just leave, and etc. when "combat attack PTSD gets going. Sigh, I plan to try that if necessary, but there is only so much I can "do" at this point, and I'm not entirely certain that sticking around will be possible if I recieve even one more such "attack."
Not a thing person that much, so if I have to, I can just get in my car and leave. And, I believe I will. It's kind of a bummer, but that is the type of escalation I really cannot handle. I don't think he even feels that bad about it, at least outwardly.
Bummer of a topic, and no need for sympathy/advice anything else. It's just the husband is great, like 95% of the time.
But if the other 5% is going to escalate like this? I don't think I can do it. The people I love I love a lot. But it doesn't become love after that kind of behavior, and if there's anything my ex taught me is that that type of aggression-- I don't really thrive under it.
So, I guess I'll see how it goes. I'm just glad nothing expensive was damaged. Not really excusing it, it COULD have been damaged, I just wound up "lucky" if such a thing exists.
Anna