You have to go to the marriage license office for that application.
Get a keeper it's more of a pain to divorce than keep around, would also be my advice....
The husband and I agree that it's way better to keep two people (mostly) happy, than the potential to make four people extremely miserable.
Unfortunately, even if you've had a keeper around, if you decide to "really keep them" well over time, their "non-dating personality" surfaces, and then.... You face the stark, stern reality, and all is well, or all is awful. LOL.
I'm glad I got the AWFUL one out of the way early..... And the good one, in May... 15 years

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It's still not harder than quitting smoking....,. LOL.
Anna