Thanks for all your support, everyone.
When we got to the nursing home this morning, mom was completely out of it. The aid said she had woken her up for a minute at breakfast, but mom wouldn’t eat at all, and fell right back to sleep.
My sister and I could not even get her to open her eyes. My brother and his wife got there later, and we all had a meeting with the heads of various departments about her care. And then my brother managed to wake her, but she wasn’t talking and didn’t seem to know we were there.
All the doctors and nurses were saying pneumonia generally makes dementia escalate like that. But there’s no telling if a person will bounce back with treatment or continue to decline. Let me tell ya, we were thinking the worst.
They gave her IV antibiotics last night at the hospital, but the home had to call a pharmacy to get the same thing. It just got there now, my sister just texted me.
But what she got at the hospital must’ve kicked in, and just at the time when her aid came in and asked if she wanted cake and ice cream. She heard that alright, and said YES! She got right up out of bed, with a little help, and we wheeled her to the cafeteria. She cleaned the plate! Still drowsy, but mostly understanding and responding.
I’ve never seen anything like it.
I mean I’m not delusional, I know we’re going to lose her. But not today.