I'm humbled and accept that I've had 2 "involvements" with law enforcement; and have had several interactions like most people (speeding ticket or less). For the interactions, most were very good, but during a couple, it was obvious that the particular officers had a chip on their shoulder. I was still polite, even after I realized
they really weren't going to be. The outcomes for all were still ok. (That Marion County Sheriff outside Indianapolis shouldn't have given me the ticket

; but it didn't turn into the "thing" that he seemed to be itching for. The other kat just ran everything he could and ended up letting me go.)
For the "involvements" [non-narcotic, non-violent]; from the start I knew I was in the wrong, and accepted these guys were just doing their jobs. I've worked with former officers before, and do now actually. Most of them are just normal guys doing a job same as the rest of us. Not all, but
most. And being polite made the overall experience almost pleasant in a weird sort of way, beyond my being stupid to begin with. These were all outside urban areas, so that's a plus. And in my area, the police force is more diverse than the population. Though depending on who you talk to around here...
My first main point is that being polite(does not mean submission) goes a LOOOONG way in all walks of life. I do a lot of work in customer service, so I have the advantage of having years of experience with angry, irate, abusive people, and diffusing/redirecting them. Almost like a Tai Chi/Kung Fu deflection technique in manners. It's even been useful when I've been the irate one (free year of HBO from the cable jerks, anyone?)
The second point I'd like to
throw in, is that my plan is to run (at least) two different e-cig rigs. One that looks completely different from an analogue (What the heck is that? Why the frak is it burning blue?), and one that looks very real (talking to a bloke, or preferably a dame, who's had a couple pints and the conversation will stay the same). I have no plans on making a statement by
vaping within 99% of the boundaries otherwise banned to smoking. Unfortunately, I can't
honestly say there isn't something to second-hand
vape. When winter comes and it's 5*F out, I'll probably be discussing it with boss, but that's another thread

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Nothing is perfect, and when it comes to The World, that's an understatement. But treading lightly and
politely can go a very long way to making it seem closer to what you want.
JLD