I won't initiate my vaping (or any opinions or beliefs) with strangers or even most most people but if asked I will talk about it. I expect the same from others. I believe that forcing one's opinions and beliefs on others isn't a form of advocacy but educating when asked is. So OP shouldn't feel they weren't an advocate in that situation.
I don't know.. I might disagree some.
I was physically approached by a stranger concerning vaping the first I ever heard of it. A new business had opened up and the owner was going around to all the other businesses giving us his cards and offering smokers discounts on their first set-up. (50% off)
It was a vape shop and the owner was one of those new age hippy types that worry about gluten..
I kind of ignored what he said (it's healthy!) in a big way. He was preaching to a smoker who had tried everything and wasn't interested in yet another useless stop smoking money pit.
I had a coworker who took the guy up on the offer and spent around three hundred on vape gear and began vaping...
He was obnoxious wanting to vape indoors and he preached too.. "oh my god this is so awesome". ..lol..
Well let's face it that particular co-worker I didn't like anyway, so him feeling like he had something to talk to me about really
really didn't help vaping's cause any.
Anyway, it wasn't until a year or so later when my health declined did vaping enter my head again, and then i spoke to my doctor and asked her opinion of vaping, and then began upon her recommendation.
I had not heard of vaping prior to the new business owner moving in, and I never heard of it outside of him and my coworker... maybe I lived a sheltered life but those two instances were literally the only thing I had ever heard of or about vaping.
My life revolved around work, doctors appointments, my adult children, my husband, cooking and cleaning and the occasional movie if I had time.
Vaping just never factored in anywhere, and back when I worked I never got online either.. no time.
So, sometimes we are the only exposure people have to vaping and real live successful vapers. No, people might think vaping is weird and not listen to a word we say... but someday when they need it most, it might be the most important thing they ever heard.
The only thing I would caution is to men.. if there is a woman out there that you've hit on a hundred times in a hundred different ways and been shot down each and every time, she is not the person to discuss vaping with... not a receptive crowd right there.