What my crazy (analog smoker) wife did yesterday.......

[SupplyDaddy]

Don't touch her stuff.. what is the use, to be just like her? :/
There is only one thing in this relationship that needs taken away. The Relationship itself!

 

[cags]

can I just remind you that black friday sales are starting!

 

[Revelene]

If that was my wife... she would be in the creek along with the vape gear she threw away.

 

[wheezal]

There are lots of things that make a single girl "hot". Part of it can be physical, sure. But I know lots of pretty girls that are not at all hot, because they are uptight, controlling, manipulative, rude, etc.

A hot girl has her act together.
A hot girl is independent.
A hot girl can have fun.
A hot girl doesn't take herself too seriously.
A hot girl knows how to laugh (at herself at times).
A hot girl enjoys simple things.
A hot girl appreciates the man she is with, or she finds another man. She does not try to control or change her man.
A hot girl is happy with herself.

great bewbs help too.....i'm not saying they make the whole the case...but they do make -a- case.

 

[Jayvaps]

Show her this thread. Lol

 

[jfango]

I don't think the money is the issue, although a while back she did get upset because I had spent a bit to get myself set up. She doesn't work, but the money is no issue because I've got plenty and she is completely free to spend as much as she sees fit from out of the joint account that my paychecks go into automatically. She does spend as she wants, but she's frugal like I am for the most part, and rarely overspends or spends on frivilous things....but she does that sometimes...but I don't mind at all and never give her grief about her spending. I spend on frivilous things too sometimes...so I give her that freedom with what money WE have together, because she is part of this nuthouse just like I am, and has equal right to share it all.

 

[FlamingoTutu]

I don't think the money is the issue, although a while back she did get upset because I had spent a bit to get myself set up. She doesn't work, but the money is no issue because I've got plenty and she is completely free to spend as much as she sees fit from out of the joint account that my paychecks go into automatically. She does spend as she wants, but she's frugal like I am for the most part, and rarely overspends or spends on frivilous things....but she does that sometimes...but I don't mind at all and never give her grief about her spending. I spend on frivilous things too sometimes...so I give her that freedom with what money WE have together, because she is part of this nuthouse just like I am, and has equal right to share it all.

You are obviously a far better person she. Hope she comes around soon.

 

[Claudia P]

When a marriage reaches this point it's time to end it, it won't get better only worse. No one who loves someone would do that!
People who love each other still respect each other enough not to destroy their property even when they disagree, if not it's time to call it a day and move on. You may think you can get her to change, just like she thinks she can get you to change, you can't and neither can she, the only one who can change someone is themselves, and only because they want to.

This nastiness will only escalate on both sides, get out now with your dignity. Your last words of revenge tell me it's too late to save this one.

I was planning on calling them this morning....(the drowning was yesterday)...but I won't....they wouldn't do much I don't believe, and I would end up being the one who'd have to bail her out...so it's a no win situation for me....but if she ever does anything like that again.....I will call them and see if I can get her arrested for destruction of property....and then I'd let her sit and stew.

 

[ta2dave76]

How long have yall been together? How long have you been married? My girl and I have been together for six years, and got hitched six months ago. I think the only real argument we've had was when I came home one night from the pub, opened the garage door, left the bike running in the driveway, left my pants in the kitchen and passed out on the beanbag chair in the living room....

She was more PO'd that she had to take me to the gas station in the morning for gas cuz the bike ran dry.....

 

[Sugar_and_Spice]

I don't think the money is the issue, although a while back she did get upset because I had spent a bit to get myself set up. She doesn't work, but the money is no issue because I've got plenty and she is completely free to spend as much as she sees fit from out of the joint account that my paychecks go into automatically. She does spend as she wants, but she's frugal like I am for the most part, and rarely overspends or spends on frivilous things....but she does that sometimes...but I don't mind at all and never give her grief about her spending. I spend on frivilous things too sometimes...so I give her that freedom with what money WE have together, because she is part of this nuthouse just like I am, and has equal right to share it all.

hope you are having new gear sent to your office or a buddy. You may never see it. and all she says is she never saw it. Or the mail never came. CYA or she will do it again.

sorry for your troubles, hope you two can talk it out and reach an understanding of some sort.

 

[jfango]

I’m, ah, well, dumbfounded, to put it politely. One question; how much nicotine did she poison the creek with? Bad enough to toss “garbage” in a creek but to poison the water too? I hope you were able to fish the stuff back out.

So glad you can afford to replace all your stuff so quickly and before the holiday mail crunch. I’ve been very grateful for, but I guess taken for granted, my husband’s steadfast support of my vaping.

You did order a gun vault to store your stuff in when you shower didn’t you?

It was two tanks half full of 18mg, and there is no easy way to fish them out since the creek is large and too cold to go for a swim, but oh well...they wouldn't be any good anyway, and I'm sure it will dissipate away without much damage to the environment. I have WAY too much stuff of value in the home so there is no way I can protect it other than trust. I don't believe she'll do anything like that again, so I've not done anything but protect one large interest I have so that she has no way of bringing about my complete financial destruction, just in case she should get really crazy and try to destroy what I've saved.

 

[Jay-dub]

I must admit that my trust in her as a friend.....went south.....and I'm not sure but now I feel that the only way she'll ever get it back is to earn it back........and knowing her as well as I do, it might never happen.....not really sure what to do now......give it some time I guess....and let clearer minds prevail.

If it makes you feel any better my wife's nuckin futz too.

 

[Sugar_and_Spice]

Sorry, you are basing your trusting her after her selfish actions? On what basis? You never thought she would do this, right? so since she has started this, there is underlying problems you may not be aware of. Get better? Suggest counciling. Sounds like you both could benefit from it.

 

[Claudia P]

Without trust there can be no real marriage, do what you need to do to protect yourself and valuables and send her on her way, or pack up your stuff and get out before this gets really dangerous. If you believe she is that crazy (and her actions do show that) then it's time to end this relationship.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life looking over your shoulder, being afraid of what she will do next? I don't think I'd spend another day living in the same house with her unless SHE got professional help. Also the things you are saying tell me that you don't really love her either, I hope there are no kids.

It was two tanks half full of 18mg, and there is no easy way to fish them out since the creek is large and too cold to go for a swim, but oh well...they wouldn't be any good anyway, and I'm sure it will dissipate away without much damage to the environment. I have WAY too much stuff of value in the home so there is no way I can protect it other than trust. I don't believe she'll do anything like that again, so I've not done anything but protect one large interest I have so that she has no way of bringing about my complete financial destruction, just in case she should get really crazy and try to destroy what I've saved.

 

[jfango]

Don't touch her stuff.. what is the use, to be just like her? :/
There is only one thing in this relationship that needs taken away. The Relationship itself!

I'd never try to get even other than the fact I did take her smokes....but I wasn't really trying so much to get back at her and mainly took them because I wanted to smoke! But as I took them away, it just kinda felt like I had to give her some reason why I was taking them, and I took the easy and obvious route. But you know what? It just might work, and she just might really quit smoking! I sure hope so, because vaping is oh so much better than analogs. I'm dead certain that she'd take to it if she was simply willing to put the effort into giving it a chance, but like I said earlier....she is as stubborn as a mule.

 

[rodsky77]

Oh yes really she did. I haven't been able to figure her out, back when I first started she took about one or two tiny hits off one of my e-cigs, then decided on the spot that it was of no value, and rejected the entire idea. I've tried to coax her into at least giving it a chance but she is very stubborn......yes, think mule.

I think that I better start locking my stuff away because my better half is of the same mindset. Yesterday she took a lung hit on my Kayfun Lite with a microcoil the way she does on a cig and started coughing like crazy - then told me that this stuff can't be good for me because she, a 20 year smoker, coughed from it....

I better get a safe...

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[aceswired]

Cut bait and run. That one's not a keeper.

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[Jay-dub]

Try not to give jfango too hard of a time. We can't help who we love. All we can do is buy a high pay-out life insurance policy on them and cut the brake lines (kidding). I've had to deal with some craziness. She may be a victim of her own emotions (bi-polar?).

Edit: In honor of EvilZoe's impeccable standards.

 

[Davinna]

I think that I better start locking my stuff away because my better half is of the same mindset. Yesterday she took a lung hit on my Kayfun Lite with a microcoil the way she does on a cig and started coughing like crazy - then told me that this stuff can't be good for me because she, a 20 year smoker, coughed from it....

I hope you tried to educate her. I know the cig-a-likes made me choke and I was a ~30year smoker.

 

[basylica]

Me, too! Who needs the aggravation?

Ditto that. I keep joking i need to post dating ad that says "come over and get busy, take out trash, kill a few spiders and ...."

Itches be crazy