What my crazy (analog smoker) wife did yesterday.......

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OP, it's probably because she sees the progress you are making, and she can see herself chained to them for what seems forever. Tell her not to be jealous, institute some damn will power, and join the team!

And, if you show newer enthusiasm for the gear, more than you've shown for her in the past whatever amount of time...that'll burn her britches too. No offense, but she acts like a child.
 

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Argh.... Without knowing the situation entirely it's hard to comment. There is two sides to every story and people perceive things differently. Her act was irrational at best, but what pushed her to do this is the main question?

How old are you guys? How long have you been married? Did she try ecigs and didn't take to her? Is money tight? Lots of stress right now for one reason or another?

Only thing I can think of rather than a separation or divorce would be locking your stuff in a safe or place where she does not have access. That is not a way to live though. I can understand if it were drugs or something, maybe even alcohol but ecigs?

Good luck.
 

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OK, so If this happened to me? Am I the only one considering checking to see if I can fit into my waterskiing wet suit and try to retrieve it?


To the OP JFango, here's to hoping that some time in the future, you and your lovely wife will be chillin on the sofa, both happily vaping, when she mentions, "Remember that time I threw all your stuff in the creek?"


And you both start laughing.


Then she takes a final vape, as she takes your hand and leads you to the bedroom...
 

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Lol yep if she's a redhead that explains it. I'm a Irish redhead and hubbys half Irish makes for some fun fights lol. But even us redheads have a reason. we just don't like to talk about whats really wrong. We find something petty instead of the real issue which is probably worse than what we let on we are mad about.
At least that's how I am I'd rather gripe that the garbage didnt get taken out than to say you have not been spending any time with me.
 

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Bawahahahahaha!!!!!!
Add to that I'm an Aries so I should really be certifiable, LOL!
What are you talking about? Aries are some of the most level-headed people out there.

no........I beg to differ, it was definitely a penguin......:ohmy:
I had no idea you were so short you would have to duck for a penguin.
 

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Lol yep if she's a redhead that explains it. I'm a Irish redhead and hubbys half Irish makes for some fun fights lol. But even us redheads have a reason. we just don't like to talk about whats really wrong. We find something petty instead of the real issue which is probably worse than what we let on we are mad about.
At least that's how I am I'd rather gripe that the garbage didnt get taken out than to say you have not been spending any time with me.

She's a redhead and half-irish.

:facepalm:

The difference is that she will get upset that I'm not spending time with her because I'm taking out the garbage!
 

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OK, so If this happened to me? Am I the only one considering checking to see if I can fit into my waterskiing wet suit and try to retrieve it?


To the OP JFango, here's to hoping that some time in the future, you and your lovely wife will be chillin on the sofa, both happily vaping, when she mentions, "Remember that time I threw all your stuff in the creek?"


And you both start laughing.


Then she takes a final vape, as she takes your hand and leads you to the bedroom...

Such a romantic!
 

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She's a redhead and half-irish.

:facepalm:

The difference is that she will get upset that I'm not spending time with her because I'm taking out the garbage!
See, that sort of thing would never upset ME. Go ahead and do household chores to your heart's content...lol

Far be it from me to refuse anyone the pleasure of doing what I loathe doing.
 

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Yah, my wife has said the same thing. Not quit as blunt as your wife though. And I gotta admite, in some way's, smoking was easier... ecig.jpg
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But of course, non of this compares to :evil:
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I don't even know what would make me more mad - the fact that she threw away the vape gear or the fact that she threw it in the creek! Seriously - throwing junk in a creek is bad. I think my marriage would have serious problems if my wife was the sort to throw things in creeks or went around disposing of my possessions.

If I were you I would not only tell her to keep her hands off my stuff in the future but I would educate her on littering as well. Somewhere there's going to be a little baby duck with his head stuck in a carto-tank or something.
 

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that's crazy, i'd go buy her some scuba gear and take away her analogs and tell her she will never smoke again till she goes and gets ur vape gear! who has control of her mind anyway?
People who scuba dive shouldn't smoke, anyway. The dangers of coughing into one's mask are acute.


PSA over.

And now we continue with your regularly scheduled programme....
 
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