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I don't vape where I couldn't smoke but I do take some puffs off of my APV when I need some nic and I blow it down my shirt so the vapor doesn't show. If someone asks me to stop, I will. I don't want to make anyone have an allergic reaction or anything. But for the people that aren't allergic and just don't like it even when I'm not vaping near them indoors or outdoors they can .... off and grow a pair.
 

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I spent nearly 40 years adjusting and adapting to the changing environment involving public smoking. Didn't care for the negative stigmas, restrictions and being herded into designated areas... still don't. But it was my choice to continue smoking... and live in this part of the world.

I never bought into the marketing boloney that e-cigarettes could be used anywhere, even where smoking is prohibited.

I don't care how safe or inert exhaled e-cig vapor is. There's a lot of "safe" things in aerosol form that's not illegal to disperse publicly, such as air fresheners, perfumes, ozone, etc... but myself and the rest of society don't feel compelled to go crop dusting any of that stuff in Walmart, Home Depot or my local mall.

What makes vaping any different??
 

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I spent nearly 40 years adjusting and adapting to the changing environment involving public smoking. Didn't care for the negative stigmas, restrictions and being herded into designated areas... still don't. But it was my choice to continue smoking... and live in this part of the world.

I never bought into the marketing boloney that e-cigarettes could be used anywhere, even where smoking is prohibited.

I don't care how safe or inert exhaled e-cig vapor is. There's a lot of "safe" things in aerosol form that's not illegal to disperse publicly, such as air fresheners, perfumes, ozone, etc... but myself and the rest of society don't feel compelled to go crop dusting any of that stuff in Walmart, Home Depot or my local mall.

What makes vaping any different??

the problem is if i'm in a crowded theater i want all people on medications to be banned also.
even though you cant see it they are breathing and sweating out microscopic amounts of medicine i
don't want in my body. anti-depressants,psychosomatic,sex therapy hormones and what not
all mixed together with out the effects having been studied for thirty years.
i am being seen as crazy for wanting this on the one hand and looked at as some sort of goof for
wanting vaping to be normal with the other.(vaping not cloud chasing and i have nothing against cloud chasing per say)

i an being a little toungue and cheek here but i see this as a double standard.
both probably don't have any second hand concerns but are treated differently.
regards
mike
 
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I spent nearly 40 years adjusting and adapting to the changing environment involving public smoking. Didn't care for the negative stigmas, restrictions and being herded into designated areas... still don't. But it was my choice to continue smoking... and live in this part of the world.

I never bought into the marketing boloney that e-cigarettes could be used anywhere, even where smoking is prohibited.

I don't care how safe or inert exhaled e-cig vapor is. There's a lot of "safe" things in aerosol form that's not illegal to disperse publicly, such as air fresheners, perfumes, ozone, etc... but myself and the rest of society don't feel compelled to go crop dusting any of that stuff in Walmart, Home Depot or my local mall.

What makes vaping any different??

Could just as well ask what makes breathing any different??

To me, what is significantly different between smoking in public and vaping is, I strongly believe if I lit up in no smoking place, it would be seconds until it was discovered that someone lit up a smoke. If I am say 50 feet away from someone, then it might be minutes, or possible I might just get away with it. Whereas with vaping, I don't just think, but have plenty of experience doing it in public, within say 15 feet of people and them having zero clue about it. So, even if an ANTZ like policy was put into place, I would still vape in that location, with respect to people around me. I wouldn't blow vapor in people's faces, and when I vape there, chances are very good that they would have zero clue whether or not I did it.

Also, if people don't vape where they wouldn't smoke, I am curious if they would vape in their own home? If yes, then I would assume it is okay to smoke there. If not, why not?
 

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Smoke hangs in the air and floats from place to place. Vapor can do that, but it doesn't create a situation where people are exposed to harmful chemicals that can cause cancer or respiratory irritation. If you sit in a corner away from the crowd and blow it down your shirt, chances are no one will ever notice it. That's been the case in my 4 1/2 year vaping experience. Twice, I've had people stare at me and I quit vaping until I was outside.
 

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I've only been vaping for about a month, but I rather let my common sense and courtesy dictate where I am going to vape. My daughter has asked me not to do it her vehicle, so I don't. I guess I've been so conditioned not to smoke in so many different places, that I have just carried it over to vaping. Now, I do vape in my office at work. The guys don't seem to care. Most of them chew tobacco anyway. The usual places where I don't smoke, I don't vape. That's not to say I might not try some stealth vaping. LOL
 

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I am still rather new to vaping. Been vaping for about a month now. Well almost 2 but I don't consider that first month much as being a vapor since I was still on analogs then. lol. For me where I vape depends on how the rules and stuff are done.

Inside

For the most I don't smoke inside a business or a person's home that doesn't allow vaping. However there are some exceptions. I will occasionally stealth vape in a bathroom of a public place or if I am someplace where no one is really around to say anything. I have vaped in a movie theater but I am considerate when I do. I make sure to stealth vape. Cause there is no way I am going to get through an entire movie without vaping. Not being able to smoke in a movie theater is one of the reasons I didn't usually go see movies.


Outside

If it is an outside place, regardless of the rules I usually vape. I don't see a big deal over it and I don't just stand there and blow clouds into people's faces. That is just rude. The fact some outdoor places even have this rule is just dumb. Hell when I was a smoker I tended to smoke in outdoor places that didn't allow it. Though if they had a designated smoking area I would go there and smoke. As a vapor though I feel like I shouldn't have to go do that. I am not smoking a cigarette.

Some more comments about inside places though. I do think it is rediculas all the recent bans. In the state of Indiana it is against the law to smoke and vape in hotels. I think the vape rule applies to restaurants as well. In the city of Indianapolis they passed a law a while back banning the use of both Cigarettes and E-Cigarettes in bars. The law itself on that I find very stupid. It has hurt the business of various bars. Though beech grove and speedway which are right next to Indianapolis do allow both in their bars and have said they won't be banning them because of the increased business this Indianapolis Ban has given their bars. You can see what that means. More drunk drivers on the roads for a longer period of time. Instead of driving or just walking down the street to their local bar they are driving to the nearest bar they can smoke/vape in. Which of course is further away. I personally don't care much for bars but I do think the City Government should have not passed this. They tried to pass one like that statewide but it got shot down. Our government needs to just let the owners of these places decide what they do and do not want allowed in their businesses. I'd gladly respect a no vaping rules if it was the owner's rules. But knowing the government is forcing it, it just aggravates me. I also don't like how they are lumping in Vaporizers with Cigarettes. They should be treated as separate things. If their going to do this they might as well lump in things like the patches and the gum in as tobacco products as well.
 

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I wish that back when...in aught 9 when I started vaping that someone had had the foresight to not call our devices "e-cigarettes". Nothing about this is cigarette like except the cigalikes...which LOOK like cigs.

I am afraid we are now too closely associated with smoking by our own nomenclature.

And despite how graceful or how militant our viewpoints, it is hard to break that association...

We've been conditioned to act like smokers imho. I'm unconditioned to it now after a year. I was at the doctors for a followup and had to fill one of those questionnaires out and one of the sections was on smoking:

Do you smoke? Yes _ No _
If yes, how many packs a day? 1 _ 2 _ 3 _ More_
Do you use other tobacco products? Yes_ No_ <--- ( I checked no btw )

I don't consider eliquid a tobacco product just because the FDA does. In that same sense, I don't consider my PV to be a electronic cigarette device. It's a REO and a Sir Lancelot and a Hanna PV..not an electronic cigarette. Now if I put tobacco in a tube and burned it with a coil and smoked it I would consider calling it an electric cigarette. Besides calling PV's EC's is admitting that those that go on about vaping being just like smoking are right when I know they are wrong.
 

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To me personally, this is a very easy subject. Don't Vape where smoking is prohibited. However, I have been known to discreetly vape when inside a pub that doesn't allow smoking, at a football game, restaurant etc. I do it very discreetly and keep it to myself. I would never use an RDA inside a place.... period. The RDA's just produce way too much vapor.

I do not see vaping ever being accepted as the norm. There is too much fear mongering in this world and I do not foresee that going away.

I work at that big place in Orlando (the place with the castle). Well the company just started putting up signs that you must use electronic cigarettes in designated smoking areas....... This is exactly why I got away from smoking; I'm tired of the smell and having to stop what I'm doing to have a smoke. I personally do my vaping discreetly in the parks and keep it to myself.

Period end of it.....
Be responsible and realize the general public is stupid

Vape discreetly in public

Be prepared to always answer 5k questions each time you are vaping in public

Realize we live in a reactive in nature society and act accordingly.

I understand this approach but am getting sick of being considered a social pariah and do not feel i need to justify my actions to ignorant people. Maybe it's an age thing....
I vape where i'm allowed and i don't where it has been forbidden.
I don't go out of my way to highlight the fact that i'm vaping but i will not desist just because it 'bothers' someone. Whilst it is legal for me to vape then the onus is on the complainer to take action, not me. I don't like breathing in car fumes but whilst it is legal to drive i have no choice. That is all.
 
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Other then an airplane, if I'm nicing out, I will vape and hold it in until nothing comes out even places who ban vaping. I will not blow huge clouds in a public environment other then a vape shop, even places that allow it. I stopped smoking cigs for a reason and will not be forced to put myself ina position for a "relapse".

Me vaping and holding it in til nothing comes out doesn't affect anybody else. No harm no foul. Like others have said, don't draw attention to yourself and it will be OK imo.
 
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I see that many of us , also in my country are arguing about how we should vape in public , some are very much against (myself among them) vaping in public indoor places but others claim (and they have a point) that people like us are making others believe vaping is smoking.

To tell you the truth I'm a bit conflicted , on 1 hand acting the same way as I had when I smoked does make others believe it's like smoking but on the other hand vaping into people's faces will make them hate vaping and not see it as an alternative to smoking.

One thing for sure though , I hate the way we treat each other when it comes to that issue , many insults were thrown at people from both sides over that topic forgetting we have the same agenda !

Going back to OP of this thread because, well, all of what's being said is more of the same from other threads.

For me, it isn't a matter of we 'should' vape in public. But I do find that as plausible response to the idea of we 'should not' (ever) vape in public. I also think many, or even arguably all, counter points to the idea of vaping in public, with respect, is ANTZ rhetoric. Which, from my first and second read of OP, is where things for those on one side of the conflict get to level of insults. But NOT where they first start.

IMO, where it first starts is this idea of blowing vapor into people's faces as what is automatically occurring when ANYONE vapes in public, indoors. Gotta specify that 'indoors' part on a vaping forum, cause from what I can tell, no vaper wants to admit to the idea that when they are outside, and there is any sort of wind, their vapor may in fact wind up in someone's face. Instead, it is as if all bets are off when it comes to outdoor vaping, and if YOU don't like that, well then, that's YOUR problem.

So, if we had people making reasonable points along lines of 'never okay to vape indoors and outdoors in public,' they would likely be ignored by most vapers, and from those who chose to speak up, would likely be treated like, or called, ANTZ.

ANTZ again equals anti-nicotine and/or tobacco zealot. A conclusion of 'never okay, regardless of the situation, to vape in pubic,' would be zealous. Especially if couching that assertion in paragraph that tries to claim, 'it's the courteous, respectful thing to do, when in public.' Then further insulting when someone is compelled to say, 'if you must vape in that situation, then you have larger problems.'

All this strikes me as ANTZ rhetoric, or things a zealot might say. Which would make for interesting round of Jeopardy or Family Feud. But, they are repeated ad nauseam and with a zeal that either completely ignores situational ethics/mores, or downplays any aspect that one can vape, in public, with respect and consideration to other persons.

So, if you are totally cool with vaping outdoors, but make blanket assertions denying any vaper from vaping indoors in public, then on this issue, to me, you are half ANTZ-like. Especially if that is 'not up for discussion' and you are going to couch your words in false sense of courtesy or resort to 'you have a problem.' Guess what? ANTZ think vapers 'have a problem.' No one needs to vape. Many think they do. Some would probably be very unpleasant to be around if they didn't vape. But no one needs to vape. So, 'you have a problem' if you are vaping, makes perfect sense to the ANTZ leaning individual and is greatly resisted by the individual that enjoys vaping and finds great benefits in doing so.

If a post like the one you are reading right now is too long, and you'd rather stick to simple short sound bite type posts, then I see very little wrong or inaccurate about calling fellow vapers ANTZ or ANTZ like for suggesting that vaping indoors, in public, is inherently wrong. I am yet to see any point from the 'don't vape indoors in public' side that applies to all situations, and from my perspective, none of them squarely address the vape everywhere, with respect part. Instead, that is ignored or downplayed, which is insulting, and again the type of thing a zealot might do, or say.
 

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the post by James is exactly what happened here in Minnesota.
i live here in the twin city area MNPLS/Saint Paul. i have worked
part time in the bar business for over 20 years.

about 30 miles east of the twin cities is the small city of Hudson WI on
the St. Croix river.
before the ban here it was a relatively peaceful nice little town that
on the week ends became a good place to go out and party at the
bars or partake in aquatic activities on the river.
the bars catered to the classic rock scene and, had off sale liquor.
the marina was first class.week end business was awesome.
life was good there.

then came the ban in Minnesota.
within a week Hudson had Monday night crowds that
were bigger than the usual Saturday nights.
by the week end it would be just nuts there.

this went on for years until recently Wisconsin finally past their smoking ban.
you can guess what happened. week ends in the summer are still good but,
that's about it. they are now hard pressed to maintain the infrastructure
that the economic growth fueled by our smoking ban gave them.

mean while here in Minnesota they tabled the e-cig ban this year.
i a sure they will not notice virtually ever business private or public
has already addressed e-cigs in their own policies and drop the
hammer next session.
the only places i know allow it are bars and coffee houses and some large indoor malls.(not individual stores)
of course they will ignore this voluntary self regulation to protect the down trodden worker and chillin'.
regards
mike
 
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the post by James is exactly what happened here in Minnesota.
i live here in the twin city area MNPLS/Saint Paul. i have worked
part time in the bar business for over 20 years.

about 30 miles east of the twin cities is the small city of Hudson WI on
the St. Croix river.
before the ban here it was a relatively peaceful nice little town that
on the week ends became a good place to go out and party at the
bars or partake in aquatic activities on the river.
the bars catered to the classic rock scene and, had off sale liquor.
the marina was first class.week end business was awesome.
life was good there.

then came the ban in Minnesota.
within a week Hudson had Monday night crowds that
were bigger than the usual Saturday nights.
by the week end it would be just nuts there.

this went on for years until recently Wisconsin finally past their smoking ban.
you can guess what happened. week ends in the summer are still good but,
that's about it. they are now hard pressed to maintain the infrastructure
that the economic growth fueled by our smoking ban gave them.

mean while here in Minnesota they tabled the e-cig ban this year.
i a sure they will not notice virtually ever business private or public
has already addressed e-cigs in their own policies and drop the
hammer next session.
the only places i know allow it are bars and coffee houses and some large indoor malls.(not individual stores)
of course they will ignore this voluntary self regulation to protect the down trodden worker and chillin'.
regards
mike

In Indianapolis the only kind of places that serve alcohol that still allowed to allow smoking and vaping are private clubs such as The Moose and The American Legion. Though it is hard telling how long they will be allowed to set their own rules on it. Kokomo, IN is trying to pass a similar ban right now as well. I am just glad here in Lebanon, IN they haven't passed something like this. I don't like to go out to bars often but if I decide to go, i'd like to be able to sit there and enjoy a nice vape while I drink.
 

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In Indianapolis the only kind of places that serve alcohol that still allowed to allow smoking and vaping are private clubs such as The Moose and The American Legion. Though it is hard telling how long they will be allowed to set their own rules on it. Kokomo, IN is trying to pass a similar ban right now as well. I am just glad here in Lebanon, IN they haven't passed something like this. I don't like to go out to bars often but if I decide to go, i'd like to be able to sit there and enjoy a nice vape while I drink.
private clubs used to have that status here. the city managed to change that years ago
thru the way they issued liquor licenses. instead of applying for a license and meeting
the criteria the city set a finite number of licenses that they owned and you have to
meet their new,many and,changing requirements to get one.
mike.
 

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Agree with what you are saying, and I am one that uses a cigalike. My device probably looks nothing like your device, and I'm fairly certain most humans would not confuse my device with a combustible.

I wish we, as a community, would aggressively attack ANTZ on the smoking front. Put them on the defensive. At first, I imagine they'd react like most here would react, as if it is laughable to attack all the 'facts' we know about smoking. But anyone that digs deeper into those alleged facts realizes they stand up just slightly better than the ANTZ 'facts' around vaping. So, I say we attack that front aggressively, while in the process we have them admitting differences between combustibles and eCigs, hopefully realizing/admitting to the differences between cigalikes and other vaping devices. And then hold them to that. But as long as ANTZ need something to actively hate on, and show no signs of letting up, then I say we take their issue #1 and throw it in their faces and challenge them all day and night to back up their claims. Most of which, I'm fairly certain they cannot back up.

I get that. I am a Casaa member and respond when asked. Outside of that I have no time to attack anything. I consider that my contribution to the vaping community is to help new people vape in a safe and satisfying manner. So I answer as many questions and try to help as many people as I can.

If I get called upon to protest or write a letter, I will.

The ANTZ are not on this forum though and if they creep in, we step on them. I see no point in being militant on a friendly forum. I am fairly certain that Casaa is all up in their grill over their ridiculous assumptions. There is another group of vapers who are getting into the battle with casaa...We Are The Vaping Militia

As to vaping anywhere I want just to get in the face of the ANTZ? Most people don't even know what vaping is, let alone being card carrying ANTZ members. I feel that one catches more flies with honey and that creating good will among other humans is the best way to get them to support you.

If you treat everyone as a potential enemy it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you treat everyone as a friend, that will be too. I prefer the latter.

To each his or her own. Do as thou wilt.

I am simply not a militant person and never will be. I prefer diplomacy and when needed well-timed laser precise strikes.
We need you both.

In the fight for freedoms there was Malcolm X and there was dr Martin Luther King jr. Both were profound in their own way but one made a lot more impact on change than the other.

In the fight against aids there were several groups as well. Contrary to the freedom fight, the militant group stood their ground, took their losses and made the greater change.

Prohibition... speaks for itself.

You never know what side is going to make the greater difference. Often don't know if one can make change without the other. Though if deeming regulations come to be what many fear, there is going to be one hell of a black market. Hopefully with a similar final outcome as prohibition.
 

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I vaped in a meeting at work today....The first thing I did was ask if anyone minded. Guess what, no one did. Had I not asked, they would have all minded or resented me for being impolite...

That is my point...I did not have to get in anyone's face to vape in a public building and I had some folks after the meeting say, "Hey! That was actually a pleasant smell, have you quit smoking with that?" And I have a potential new vaper coming....

I guess my way works for me just fine.
 

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I am afraid we are now too closely associated with smoking by our own nomenclature.
I don't think it would have mattered what we called it.

The target was not the name of the product.
It was the way said product could destroy such a long-standing money train.

We could have called it "Fresh Scent Air Sanitizer" and they still would be all over us just like they are now.
 
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