And Mattie, you should never have to worry about yourself here. We are all tolerant of differing opinions.
as far as vaping in public (a favorite bash topic)...
I will vape in public. If I'm just out walking the neighborhood and there may be children present, I don't vape. Unless it's after 6PM. Any child out after that will just have to ask mom and dad what is going on.
But I have no problem vaping form the parking lot to the store, or walking down the sidewalk, or just sitting on a bench.
Other people don't feel comfortable with that, and that's O.K. THEY don't have to be in MY head. Thank goodness I don't have to be in theirs either.