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smokinGAVIN

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Hi. Do any of you watch Good Mythical Morning? Apparently they made a video about vaping and how it will destroy the earth. My kids are really angry at me and my wife for vaping. After the anger we have been getting the silent treatment from them. I tried to talk to them but they won't listen. I need to watch the video just to get an idea of why my kids are acting this way. I am just really angry right now. We don't really have any bad press about vaping in my country so I never had to deal with anything like this before. My government just recently enacted a country wide smoking ban but excluded vaping because they feel it needs more study. I feel like we are heading the right direction when it comes to vaping in my country then this happened. It's a holiday here and a long weekend so we went on a short vacation and this video ruined our vacation. I guess that's why I'm really angry. Sorry for the rant.
 

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There are tons of videos on YouTube that promote vaping and list out the advantages of vaping. Just show them one of those videos and make them think reasonably.
This happens every once in a while... Someone who has limited knowledge about vaping comes in and posts a video and it becomes an issue for a lot of people...
Don't worry you know you're doing the right thing by not smoking cigs and vaping instead. Just show them one of the good videos and I'm sure they'll understand the reasons. :)
Happy vaping :)

Edit - i remember recently there was a video from verge( a big shot company) and they were misleading people by telling them how vaping is harmful and how diacetyl and popcorn lungs are a big deal but as we all know no liquids today contain any harmful substances like diacetyl.

Here is one of the good videos that you might wanna watch with them...
This guy has a series of videos about how vaping is the healthy alternative.

https://www.google.co.in/url?sa=t&s...x28jtvfnGP_UlkifA&sig2=HZwJctYv347h-DZSJS35Jw
 
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Btsmokincat

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3 things...

1. That mythical morning video was nothing but American anti-vaping propaganda. Big Tobacco, big pharma and many states continue to lose millions the more popular vaping becomes so they spin all kind of crap trying to scare people away from switching.

2. The guest star of that GMM video was the US Surgeon General who was FIRED not long after. It had nothing to do with vaping but his credibility is crap.

3. Ohmboy Josh did an excellent point by point rebuttal! Highly suggest watching It!
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Hi. Do any of you watch Good Mythical Morning? Apparently they made a video about vaping and how it will destroy the earth. My kids are really angry at me and my wife for vaping. After the anger we have been getting the silent treatment from them. I tried to talk to them but they won't listen. I need to watch the video just to get an idea of why my kids are acting this way. I am just really angry right now. We don't really have any bad press about vaping in my country so I never had to deal with anything like this before. My government just recently enacted a country wide smoking ban but excluded vaping because they feel it needs more study. I feel like we are heading the right direction when it comes to vaping in my country then this happened. It's a holiday here and a long weekend so we went on a short vacation and this video ruined our vacation. I guess that's why I'm really angry. Sorry for the rant.

Meh, no worse than the lies they(we) learn(ed) in school.
IMO, Dont get your news from youtube. SMH

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How old are your kids? I guess I'm just a meanie but my kids (21 and 14) know beyond a shadow of a doubt MY house MY rules. I suppose you could turn it around on them. I'm pretty sure there is some form of not so healthy behavior that your kids exhibit (junk food, soda or energy drinks, too much time on video games, there has to be something) that you can campaign against their usage of. You can also explain to them that they have a right to disagree with you but that you are the authority in your home and they DO NOT have a right to disrespect you. Honestly I think most of the problems with our society never would've happened if, as parents, we never gave up our authority and never stopped saying NO. Yep, they get mad at us sometimes but they get over it too. I am very blessed with two awesome young men who, once they realized that I would not back down from my authority, I have a very open relationship with. They have grown up to see and understand why our rules were always different than everybody else's and they have expressed their gratitude for it. Kudos to you and your wife for getting smoke free. Good luck to you both.
 

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+1 on the rebuttal video posted above by @Btsmokincat ..

But there is something I totally do not understand.. i DON'T as a parent understand your KIDS being angry at you and giving you the silent treatment.

Who is raising your kids, who is teaching them right from wrong? You? If you then I would suggest actually teaching them, and actually raising them. For real.

I broke my back and had a series of back surgeries, and I had very serious nerve damage after that which is exceedingly painful, constant, incurable, and for the rest of my life.

The doctors needed to be able to give me pain medicine that was strong as a result, yet was easier on my liver and other internal organs since my need to take pain medicine was going to be long term.

There was a new experimental medicine at that time available, it was called oxycontin. I began taking it orally as prescribed, and it was helpful. It gave me my life back in many ways as it gave me the ability to deal with the pain of physical therapy, helped lessen the pain enough for me to sleep at night, and in general gave me the ability to live a more normal life, as I could do more than lay in bed and cry.

Well, one evening years future we were all sitting and watching the news, they did a program where they talked about oxycontin and the fact it was now being called hillbilly ......, that it had street value, and drug addicts were abusing the drug.

Well my kids and I watched the program, every single one of us in shock, and when the segment was over both my kids turned their heads simultaneously and looked at me.. my daughter spoke first she said.. omg mom your a drug addict, then my son piped up with, omg your medicine has street value! That makes you drug addict.

Of course, as a parent I explained to them the difference between a drug addict and someone who takes medicine as prescribed by their doctor, and reminded them why I needed to take pain medicine.

This was teaching.. they heard what I said and accepted it as truth.. why? Because I raise my children, and taught them. Certainly I think it made all of us look at my medicine differently than any of us had ever looked at it before, and my son handily calculated the street worth.. (lol) and declared all our money problems solved (to which I said no way in hell and we all laughed)

But.. this is how you raise your kids. My kids would never have stopped talking to me, nor would they ever have not talked to me about their concerns with anything.. we were a family, we talked, we discussed, I taught and I raised my own kids. Not the t.v... not the government, not anything nor anyone but me..

So.. I just don't understand your problem, not even a little bit. When a question about vaping came up, you should have addressed it then in a teaching environment.
 

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If your kids believe a youtube video over their parents, you have a bigger situation that you should address.

That might sound harsh, but its true.
Got to agree with this.

For the record, I'm not a fan of participation trophies either.
 

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The Good Mythical Morning video was garbage and the owners censored provaping comments from their feed. I don't like people and organizations that censor opposing information. When I started to vape I sat my 10yo down and told him what I was doing and why, and that was that. If he has questions he asks.
 

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Just curious... How do you put that "spoiler" drop down thing?
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+1 on the rebuttal video posted above by @Btsmokincat ..

But there is something I totally do not understand.. i DON'T as a parent understand your KIDS being angry at you and giving you the silent treatment.

Who is raising your kids, who is teaching them right from wrong? You? If you then I would suggest actually teaching them, and actually raising them. For real.

I broke my back and had a series of back surgeries, and I had very serious nerve damage after that which is exceedingly painful, constant, incurable, and for the rest of my life.

The doctors needed to be able to give me pain medicine that was strong as a result, yet was easier on my liver and other internal organs since my need to take pain medicine was going to be long term.

There was a new experimental medicine at that time available, it was called oxycontin. I began taking it orally as prescribed, and it was helpful. It gave me my life back in many ways as it gave me the ability to deal with the pain of physical therapy, helped lessen the pain enough for me to sleep at night, and in general gave me the ability to live a more normal life, as I could do more than lay in bed and cry.

Well, one evening years future we were all sitting and watching the news, they did a program where they talked about oxycontin and the fact it was now being called hillbilly ......, that it had street value, and drug addicts were abusing the drug.

Well my kids and I watched the program, every single one of us in shock, and when the segment was over both my kids turned their heads simultaneously and looked at me.. my daughter spoke first she said.. omg mom your a drug addict, then my son piped up with, omg your medicine has street value! That makes you drug addict.

Of course, as a parent I explained to them the difference between a drug addict and someone who takes medicine as prescribed by their doctor, and reminded them why I needed to take pain medicine.

This was teaching.. they heard what I said and accepted it as truth.. why? Because I raise my children, and taught them. Certainly I think it made all of us look at my medicine differently than any of us had ever looked at it before, and my son handily calculated the street worth.. (lol) and declared all our money problems solved (to which I said no way in hell and we all laughed)

But.. this is how you raise your kids. My kids would never have stopped talking to me, nor would they ever have not talked to me about their concerns with anything.. we were a family, we talked, we discussed, I taught and I raised my own kids. Not the t.v... not the government, not anything nor anyone but me..

So.. I just don't understand your problem, not even a little bit. When a question about vaping came up, you should have addressed it then in a teaching environment.
I actually totally agree with you! They should know right from wrong, and teaching your kids the lessons in life is important. Surely your values matter more than a stupid video
 

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I actually totally agree with you! They should know right from wrong, and teaching your kids the lessons in life is important. Surely your values matter more than a stupid video

Honestly, this is the part I just can't get over.. parenting/raising children is so much more than providing food.

Who is raising these kids? Just anyone and everyone they run into? It's little wonder the world is as messed up as it is these days if this is the case!

I darn sure wouldn't just feed my kids and let just anyone teach them right from wrong! That's not parenting that's closer to child abuse in my opinion! What if the people who are raising them have evil intent? (As we have seen in this case.. the stock markets going to crash, the world is going to be plunged into some type of dark ages if people quit smoking by switching to vaping and the earth destroyed? Really? That's pro children how, exactly?)

This is honestly the saddest thing I have ever encountered!
 
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Honestly, this is the part I just can't get over.. parenting/raising children is so much more than providing food.

Who is raising these kids? Just anyone and everyone they run into? It's little wonder the world is as messed up as it is these days if this is the case!

I darn sure wouldn't just feed my kids and let just anyone teach them right from wrong! That's not parenting that's closer to child abuse in my opinion! What if the people who are raising them have evil intent? (As we have seen in this case.. the stock markets going to crash, the world is going to be plunged into some type of dark ages if people quit smoking by switching to vaping and the earth destroyed? Really? That's pro children how, exactly?)

This is honestly the saddest thing I have ever encountered!
That's true & makes me so angry!
 
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Cf11

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Wow. All of you are really banging up on the kids.
Well since I'm also kind of a kid... In their defense.. You guys are much wiser in life and know the right from wrong because of all the experiences you have in life but we sometimes don't.
I'm not saying that they're right in going against what their parents are telling them and believing a video on YouTube.
I'm just saying it's a new world. We interact more with technology and such videos... Not only about vaping but also other stuff in life and obviously it's bound to leave an impression on us right?

Again I'm not saying they are right in not talking to their parents just bcoz they saw a video. They're absolutely wrong. I'd sit down with my parents and talk to them explain them my point of view and listen to their's and then make my decision.
But i saw someone saying that it's the parent's house and their rules are the final decisions. I believe that we can all learn in life.... So what if parents have to learn something from their kids? There's no shame in that...
They are your flesh and blood... And if they can teach you a thing or two about life then you should be proud of them. Give them a chance to express and don't just say it's my house and you kids gotta do what i say and nothing else.

PS - I don't mean to offend anyone. You guys as I've stated before have much more experience in life and are much wiser but please think about what I'm saying. Also please feel free to ignore the crap I've typed completely if you think you know better afterall I'm just 22... What do i know in life... Compared to some of you guys who have the wisdom and experience of more than 50 years in life.
Just my thoughts. Don't hate on me for this. :)
 
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