I'm not a girly girl either. It was kind of a "missing link" type of thing, I had to beg my mom for my first BRA and like, there was all this discussion of "you don't need one" and me saying "I am getting teased in PE ever DAY Mom."
I THINK my mom actually made my DAD accompany me for that purchase, but it was better than getting teased in PE all the time. Similarly, I had to beg for deodorant when the time was ripe, so to speak.
Also. Barbies were BANNED. My aunt got me one on the sly for Christmas but then my older brother beheaded it. He was not punished.
While my mom taught me many things, makeup application was not one of them. I had a girly sponsee who like, taught me that stuff. LOL. I was getting MARRIED, so she was super impressed with my Sephora purchase but I was getting MARRIED and the first makeup lady turned me into a CLOWN "for the pictures."
You'd think this made me super dang girly but I'm like eh, mascara and some sheer mineral powder is what you are going to "get" if you "get" anything. I actually think it looks nicer than a ton of makeup. I like to look super hot, occasionally, but mainly for the husband so he gets to "show me off" so to speak. I have few outfits for that.
You can go overboard though. One time I was wearing a super short skirt, these platform shoes, and well, I was tarted up. We went to an AA meeting before the date and some old guy took me aside and whispered, "You never have to do that anymore young lady if you keep coming here." I was like, "Sir I am on A date," and he was like, "Uh huh."
I did not know whether to be amused. or really insulted. LOL.
I was SO RELIEVED to have a boy though I was like "What if I get a girly girl I will not know how to HELP her.'
I did go through a major shoe phase but I'm over that addiction. I think.
Anna
I THINK my mom actually made my DAD accompany me for that purchase, but it was better than getting teased in PE all the time. Similarly, I had to beg for deodorant when the time was ripe, so to speak.
Also. Barbies were BANNED. My aunt got me one on the sly for Christmas but then my older brother beheaded it. He was not punished.
While my mom taught me many things, makeup application was not one of them. I had a girly sponsee who like, taught me that stuff. LOL. I was getting MARRIED, so she was super impressed with my Sephora purchase but I was getting MARRIED and the first makeup lady turned me into a CLOWN "for the pictures."
You'd think this made me super dang girly but I'm like eh, mascara and some sheer mineral powder is what you are going to "get" if you "get" anything. I actually think it looks nicer than a ton of makeup. I like to look super hot, occasionally, but mainly for the husband so he gets to "show me off" so to speak. I have few outfits for that.
You can go overboard though. One time I was wearing a super short skirt, these platform shoes, and well, I was tarted up. We went to an AA meeting before the date and some old guy took me aside and whispered, "You never have to do that anymore young lady if you keep coming here." I was like, "Sir I am on A date," and he was like, "Uh huh."
I did not know whether to be amused. or really insulted. LOL.
I was SO RELIEVED to have a boy though I was like "What if I get a girly girl I will not know how to HELP her.'
I did go through a major shoe phase but I'm over that addiction. I think.
Anna