Jealous about the dani mini, it’s on my must have list. What color did you get? Yay!!! for the artist being able to make one later. It’s a really cool looking comb!
I got PURPLE !!
It took me a loooong time to save up for it !
Jealous about the dani mini, it’s on my must have list. What color did you get? Yay!!! for the artist being able to make one later. It’s a really cool looking comb!
I totally get it and feel for you and your mom. My mom has alzheimer's but not advanced yet. It can be real hard at times having a mom (or anyone) with dementia or alzheimer's. But I, like you, keep plugging away and doing what I can. I feel for anyone who has dementia or alzheimer's. It's hard on them, and loved ones, losing memories.Well, it’s 85 here today, but still better than yesterday.
Yesterday, hottest day of the year, I went to my mom’s. She keeps it so hot in her apartment I was feeling ill. I brought her some bananas but they weren’t quite ripe and she gave me a hard time about that. It’s all the store had, and they’re ripe enough today, but anyway...
And I brought her some frozen cooked shrimp and cocktail sauce. She loves that and eats it whenever she gets a chance. So she asks me how am I going to cook it.
Mom. I brought this especially since it does not have to be cooked.
Well I don’t want to eat it like that! Can’t you grill it?
Yeah mom I’ll just drive it back home, go fill up my propane tanks, fire up the grill, and stand outside in 98 degrees and cook something that does not need to be cooked so I can have a heat stroke.
I don’t say any of that out loud.
I just said
Well then save it till you feel like it. It’s frozen, it’ll keep.
Then she says
If you make soup, you could bring some
I said
Yeah I do that when it’s cooler out.
Then she decided to eat cookies because well whatever, and offered me one. And as always, I declined.
I’m trying to watch what I eat.
Well why aren’t you losing any weight then? You’re dieting, you’re always so busy with the garden that you can’t come over, you should be skinny!
I’m gonna stop right there and say I did not kill her.
I know it’s the dementia- not that she wasn’t always passive aggressive - but dammit that hurt. I’m over there every other day for a couple hours. I cook, get her mail, take the trash out. I go to the store for her. I want to be kind because I don’t know how long we have. But it’s hard.
You are a very good daughter, Delores. Your Mom is very lucky to have you.Well, it’s 85 here today, but still better than yesterday.
Yesterday, hottest day of the year, I went to my mom’s. She keeps it so hot in her apartment I was feeling ill. I brought her some bananas but they weren’t quite ripe and she gave me a hard time about that. It’s all the store had, and they’re ripe enough today, but anyway...
And I brought her some frozen cooked shrimp and cocktail sauce. She loves that and eats it whenever she gets a chance. So she asks me how am I going to cook it.
Mom. I brought this especially since it does not have to be cooked.
Well I don’t want to eat it like that! Can’t you grill it?
Yeah mom I’ll just drive it back home, go fill up my propane tanks, fire up the grill, and stand outside in 98 degrees and cook something that does not need to be cooked so I can have a heat stroke.
I don’t say any of that out loud.
I just said
Well then save it till you feel like it. It’s frozen, it’ll keep.
Then she says
If you make soup, you could bring some
I said
Yeah I do that when it’s cooler out.
Then she decided to eat cookies because well whatever, and offered me one. And as always, I declined.
I’m trying to watch what I eat.
Well why aren’t you losing any weight then? You’re dieting, you’re always so busy with the garden that you can’t come over, you should be skinny!
I’m gonna stop right there and say I did not kill her.
I know it’s the dementia- not that she wasn’t always passive aggressive - but dammit that hurt. I’m over there every other day for a couple hours. I cook, get her mail, take the trash out. I go to the store for her. I want to be kind because I don’t know how long we have. But it’s hard.
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get ground and tower too, not the time of year for shortwave really. dabbled with marine bands...should do some more.
Fortunately my sister and brother live close, too, and they’re visiting as often as I do. Thank goodness! If it were only me I don’t know how I’d cope!You're a good daughter.
Does she have any means of socializing or are you all she has ?
I totally get it and feel for you and your mom. My mom has alzheimer's but not advanced yet. It can be real hard at times having a mom (or anyone) with dementia or alzheimer's. But I, like you, keep plugging away and doing what I can. I feel for anyone who has dementia or alzheimer's. It's hard on them, and loved ones, losing memories.
Crappy, actually what I would like to say would be very. It just sucks.
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Well, it’s 85 here today, but still better than yesterday.
Yesterday, hottest day of the year, I went to my mom’s. She keeps it so hot in her apartment I was feeling ill. I brought her some bananas but they weren’t quite ripe and she gave me a hard time about that. It’s all the store had, and they’re ripe enough today, but anyway...
And I brought her some frozen cooked shrimp and cocktail sauce. She loves that and eats it whenever she gets a chance. So she asks me how am I going to cook it.
Mom. I brought this especially since it does not have to be cooked.
Well I don’t want to eat it like that! Can’t you grill it?
Yeah mom I’ll just drive it back home, go fill up my propane tanks, fire up the grill, and stand outside in 98 degrees and cook something that does not need to be cooked so I can have a heat stroke.
I don’t say any of that out loud.
I just said
Well then save it till you feel like it. It’s frozen, it’ll keep.
Then she says
If you make soup, you could bring some
I said
Yeah I do that when it’s cooler out.
Then she decided to eat cookies because well whatever, and offered me one. And as always, I declined.
I’m trying to watch what I eat.
Well why aren’t you losing any weight then? You’re dieting, you’re always so busy with the garden that you can’t come over, you should be skinny!
I’m gonna stop right there and say I did not kill her.
I know it’s the dementia- not that she wasn’t always passive aggressive - but dammit that hurt. I’m over there every other day for a couple hours. I cook, get her mail, take the trash out. I go to the store for her. I want to be kind because I don’t know how long we have. But it’s hard.