My process is a bit different but I will first answer your main question.
I go by smell. Once I can no longer detect the smell of alcohol I'm good.
Genius! Why didn't I realize that! Of course! lol. It is so simple, and it was there right under my nose the whole damn time haha.
I appreciate your (AND ALL THE OTHER PREVIOUS REPLIERS!) reply, and I admire your patience to accomplish this at room temperature. I don't have that kind of patience, but I'm glad you remarked about the three day freezing time, because I was tempted to take my jar out of the freezer tomorrow, but now I'll likely leave it in for a couple more days just to get the sludge to freeze onto the sides and filter itself into a cleaner vape in the long run.
Much thanks for your sagacity and wisdom. There really needs to be a compilation video made of this process that covers the various methods and techniques. There's really nothing definitive out there. It's like this is secret knowledge, almost. Maybe it's best that way, after all, there IS a danger of flammability to this.
but anyways:
again I thank you all!