What my crazy (analog smoker) wife did yesterday.......

[cags]

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well nevermind then

 

[Robino1]

You've been spending too much time on your vape gear/habbit/rebuilding.

She just NEEDS YOUR ATTENTION / LOVE / HUG.

Let it go. Love her, cherish her, assure her that she comes first before your vape gear.

"Honey, I can get new gear. But I never ever want to lose you. (tears in eyes). You come first before my vape gear. But please don't do that again. It hurts me. "

One stone, two birds. You strengthen your relationship and she'll never ever do that again. Guaranteed.............. hopefully

So basically reward bad behavior? never mind, strike that. Not worth getting into a discussion about.

 

[7sixtwo]

I'd just inform her that she won't be receiving a Christmas present this year, as she's chosen to have you spend that money on replacing the property she willfully destroyed.

Very simple.. and I bet she won't pull that kind of garbage in the future.

 

[EvilZoe]

I think they definitely need to sit down and figure out what is REALLY wrong and work out a plan to resolve the issues, perhaps even look into some counseling. I suspect she's very jealous of his success and is feeling "lesser than" because he's enthusiastic about it. I don't know if he's pressuring her to lay down her analogs or not but she might feel he is simply by his continuing to vape. My mother has a tendency to see everything as how it relates to HER and it drives me nuts.

Love can see them through this, though. I support him.

 

[vjc0628]

It's not marriage or engagement that is the cause. The person with the erratic behavior is at fault here. There are just as many crazy, selfish single people out there as there are married/in a relationship folks.

either he cheated on her or something of the like

or he has allowed her to be domineering like that from the beginning

or she is looking for a way out

 

[HauntedMyst]

You've been spending too much time on your vape gear/habbit/rebuilding.

She just NEEDS YOUR ATTENTION / LOVE / HUG.

Let it go. Love her, cherish her, assure her that she comes first before your vape gear.

"Honey, I can get new gear. But I never ever want to lose you. (tears in eyes). You come first before my vape gear. But please don't do that again. It hurts me. "

One stone, two birds. You strengthen your relationship and she'll never ever do that again. Guaranteed.............. hopefully

And you need to send her hugs and kisses with emoticons and shower her with rose petals when she gets home too! That is the cutest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle wa......(sorry. I can't even finish with this estrogen stream of consciousness. Its so saccharine, it made me throw up in my mouth a little bit.) Either all that or she just needs to be Gilloolyed.

 

[EvilZoe]

And you need to send her hugs and kisses with emoticons and shower her with rose petals when she gets home too! That is the cutest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle wa......(sorry. I can't even finish with this estrogen stream of consciousness. Its so saccharine, it made me throw up in my mouth a little bit.) Either all that or she just needs to be Gilloolyed.

I think a mod needs to come delete it because it's giving the thread cavities.

 

[baghandler]

I think they definitely need to sit down and figure out what is REALLY wrong and work out a plan to resolve the issues, perhaps even look into some counseling. I suspect she's very jealous of his success and is feeling "lesser than" because he's enthusiastic about it. I don't know if he's pressuring her to lay down her analogs or not but she might feel he is simply by his continuing to vape. My mother has a tendency to see everything as how it relates to HER and it drives me nuts.

Love can see them through this, though. I support him.

THIS ^^^^ x100

People in relationships, particularity married relationships can figure out really weird ways to coexist and put up with each others faults that the outside world would never understand. One time around when World of Warcraft came out, I played it all the time. My wife would came into my home office and say "Why are you dressed like an overweight peterpan?" I said "I'm a vicious Rouge Blood Elf!" She said "Blood elf's shirt don't cover their bellies? When are you going to shower? And when are you going to sleep?" Ah, she's a mouthy scamp!

A about a month later of playing it every hour I wasn't working, I told I was talking my two week vacation from work in Azeroth!" So she took away my hard drive and foam sword and told me we were going to Hawaii like we planned. I was ....... Really ....... She wouldn't give me back my stuff until we got back from Maui. I passive aggressively wore my Blood Elf costume the whole time until she asked house keeping to wash it and never return it. I was ...... again! Really .......

But I waited, for 6 months until Thanksgiving. Instead of enjoying our usual Thanksgiving morning breakfast of eggs and bacon, I had copious amounts of Chili and Laxatives. Cut to 6 hours later when her entire extended family was over and everyone sat down to Thanksgiving dinner, I excused myself and shyte all over the living room and hung up a banner that said "This is for taking my hard drive and elf sword. Happy Thanksgiving" She never took my hard drive again.

And, of course, this ^^^. (By the way, HauntedMyst, do you have a newsletter? If so, I'd like to subscribe )

 

[gully]

I don't think they issue those for wearing elf shirts.

The committee took that into account but decided that the finishing move was worthy of the award.

 

[baghandler]

And you need to send her hugs and kisses with emoticons and shower her with rose petals when she gets home too! That is the cutest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle wa......(sorry. I can't even finish with this estrogen stream of consciousness. Its so saccharine, it made me throw up in my mouth a little bit.) Either all that or she just needs to be Gilloolyed.

I could be wrong (it can happen), but I believe the poster whose comment you are referring to arises from the testosterone pool. By this you make me question the wisdom of subscribing to your newsletter.

 

[danca90]

Now I'm curious who here has a license as a marriage councilor.

 

[EddardinWinter]

Now I'm curious who here has a license as a marriage councilor.

I don't.

Destroying relationships in an epic, foundation-shattering way has always been more my natural gift. But I don't think you need one of those post an opinion on an internet forum...



Tapped out

 

[CommaHolly]

uhhm,,,,,,,,


just an observation after having dealt with a very difficult, very troubled, "emotionally handicapped" child for several years,,,,,,,,


when they don't respect YOU,,,,,,,,,one of the first ways it shows is to disrespect your STUFF.

when someone takes your stuff and throws it away without a by your leave?

that's total disrespect.

Your wife has some serious apologizing, some serious "making it right" and perhaps some serious counseling needed to discover why she felt the need to do that.

 

[CommaHolly]

And you need to send her hugs and kisses with emoticons and shower her with rose petals when she gets home too! That is the cutest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle wa......(sorry. I can't even finish with this estrogen stream of consciousness. Its so saccharine, it made me throw up in my mouth a little bit.) Either all that or she just needs to be Gilloolyed.

I'm a WOMAN and it made me want to vomit!

 

[Heavyrocker]

Marriage destroyed by vaping and i thought smoking was dangerous.

 

[7sixtwo]

never mind...

forum needs a 'delete post' feature.

 

[Robino1]

Now I'm curious who here has a license as a marriage councilor.

I would say some counseling is needed for sure. Common sense and decency also go long way.

 

[DaveOno]

The couple will do what the couple will do, regardless of the opinions expressed here.


And i say again, I'm hoping years from now, they can laugh hard when remembering that day.

 

[Rabbit Chaser]

I am certain that the OP didn't intend on posting to get 20 pages of unsolicited (and some very bad) marriage advice and I feel sad for him that this is the "support" he has gotten. One of the responses I read about having an affair with the wife's best friend made me feel physically sick. Please, despite freedom of speech, try to practice uplifting inspiration.

 

[EvilZoe]

I am certain that the OP didn't intend on posting to get 20 pages of unsolicited (and some very bad) marriage advice and I feel sad for him that this is the "support" he has gotten. One of the responses I read about having an affair with the wife's best friend made me feel physically sick. Please, despite freedom of speech, try to practice uplifting inspiration.

While I agree that some of the comments are off the mark here, I'm pretty sure that one wasn't serious...lol