It just hit me that it's actually been almost 3 years to the day since I stirred Gutter out of his lair for a brief few months. I went lurking arpund on the net and everything I'm finding is like,
three years old. Hope all is good with him.
I've definitely become the elder statesmen of both my grandparents limb of the tree of life. I found out that my cousin, the oldest of two sons among my mother's family passed away a few days ago at 71. I wasn't sure if he was older than me but he was less than a month younger. I really only knew him and his brother from teenage years although, it turns out, he was living with his mother before she passed away, only a few miles from where I live.
My uncle and his wife were pretty much drunk the only time I was around them and the kids represented how they grew up so we never were on the same page. I let them know when my uncle died because I thought she might like to know and go to his funeral and I found out my aunt had passed away over a year earlier. I then contacted them again because she was in the will and I knew I'd need a death certificate and possibly they would get her portion of the estate. He never got back to me and I had to track down their stepbrother to get a copy of the cert. Fortunately the way the will was written, her share was not passed on so I didn't have to deal with them. Apparently he and his brother were battling according to their half brother. Needless to say, I won't worry about going to his funeral.