My youngest (she's 24 now) was about 13 years old and one day I saw her in the kitchen with my daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law was "teaching" her how to make a tuna fish sandwich. (She knew how to make a tuna sandwich, but she was lazy so she decided to ask my DIL to "teach" her how that way she did not need to make it herself).I thinks it's more of a doesn't want to bother than ability. I can't complain tho he can fix and make about anythingSo making a cup of tea compared to fixing the hot water tank, I'll take it!