Honestly it scares me to death that my husband might die before me, but, I can't live his life for him. He has to make his own choices, for himself.
Mine doesn't want them vape, he thinks it's wrong somehow, to plug in and recharge your smokes, instead of lighting up and burning. he is old fashioned and doesn't take well to change, and this is one change he won't even try. He also laughs at me for vaping "cake" as he says instead of cigarette flavor. I offered to get him some tobacco flavors to try and see if he likes the taste, but he says no. He wants to smoke.
Nothing I can do about that, and since we both were smokers, I don't think I can ask him to change because I did.
But I understand that fear, it worries me all the time.. I do not want to outlive him.. I have already outlived one child, and an adopted child as well.. (one to cancer, one to Afghanistan) I don't think I could deal without him.