Are You just coming to this Conclusion?
Although, for the General Vaping Community/Market, I couldn't Agree more with what you say. But your Post is Misplaced. Because the People in this Thread, for the Most Part, are the Letter Writers. And supporters, for the Most Part, of Advocacy Groups. And the one's, for the Most Part, who would attend a "Rally". If there was one.
There was a Member here a Long Time Ago...
... and when Deeming was still in the FDA Public Comment phase took it on himself to go to Local Vape Shops in His area in Hopes of Drumming up Support thru Retailers. He was meet with just about Zero Support. I think it Really Shocked Him.
I also contacted the Owners of 3 Vape Shops that I know. And asked if They could hand out Flyers to their Walk-In Customers explaining what the FDA was purposing. And to send a Link to the Information to their Customer via e-Mail. I offered to Print the Flyers for them. Or to make Posters that they could put in their shop using an HP 350c I have. I was Met with the Exact same thing. Zero Support.
When I challenged them on it I was told, in various forms, that they Didn't want to Scare their Customers. And to get them Thinking about how DIY could make them Self-Sufficient. Because the sale of e-Liquids was what reaped the Profits. And if people started doing DIY, the Businesses would go Belly Up. There's No Profit in selling Hardware.
I also got involved with some people who Tried to Leverage campaign contributions to include Positive and or Reasonable Support for Pending/Future e-Cigarette policies. We had a Few Gains. But they were Dwarfed by the Money that was going into Anti-Vaping Campaigns.
Here's the Thing. If you want to do anything at the Grass Roots level, you need to Contact a Lot of People. A LOT of People. Because in a Best Case Scenario, you might get 1 out of 10 people to do more than just agree that things are Not Right. And to get someone to get off their Couch on a Saturday and stand in a Crowd holding a Pro-Vaping sign, you are probably talking 1 of 50. So to get 100 people in the Streets, well... you can do the Math.
Without the Support of Retailers and OEMs, who can Reach Hundreds of Thousands of People in 1 e-Mail, there is a Limit to just what Individuals can do in a Thread like this.
It Isn't that they Don't want to Do Anything, they Do. They just Don't have vehicle to do it with.
The VAST MAJORITY of Vapers Don't frequent the ECF. Or any other Forum where Advocacy might (or Might Not) even be Mentioned.
So yeah... It's all Kinda going to Hell in a Hand Basket. But that Doesn't mean that there are Not those who Care. Or have Tried to Play a Part, albeit a small one, in it Not Happening.