I took a Comparative Religion class in college. Despite homework assignments like "Read the New Testament this week," well, I must say, I got to read and compare a LOT of religious tenants.
They all had flaws. They all had one common theme, which I boiled down to something not quite printable here: "Don't be a (censored). Just don't do that and it's all going to be fine."
Sadly, when one becomes rabidly focused on one side or the other, one tends to forget, "Oh, right, I shouldn't be a (censored).
If we could all just act less like, well, (censored) and if the penalty were not, "Treat others as you wish to be treated," which doesn't even work in SCHOOLS, oh my Gosh, well, if instead it were:
"Don't be a (censored)" and once one's personal rights infringe on those of others, well, that's the time to be looking at issues.
And behavior that isn't "being a (censored)" does include:
Tolerance of others and their needs.
Keeping personal control over one's own behaviors.
Allowing states rights
Allowing free trade.
Fair and just taxation (although I think the big J would have had an issue with that one).
Not accusing others of being "sinners" for
vaping/smoking/drinking anything UNLESS it endangers the lives or wellbeing of others.
Allowing schools/neighborhoods/clubs/whatever to be self-policing to an extent.
Sigh, I could go on. They're all fairly sensible things but unfortunately of late, politics has been rather "shrill" with both sides having fits, and both sides accusing each other which is really a Political Play for "How will I take your money/freedom etc."
I'm afraid I figured that out after a few news cycles of "screaming death, war, bird flu, here's a cute story about a kid (probably some dastardly thing was getting passed in Congress), OH WAIT the volcano could kill us all.... Mild economic upturn.... Higher tax rate for "insert group" racism, more racism, or sexism."
I consider it mostly "show" at this point. I'd rather rally around the "Don't be a (censored)" cry, personally. I will often repeat it to
myself if agitated about an old lady crossing my path at Safeway or whatever.
The golden rule isn't actually helpful, because I might treat someone like *I* want to be treated, and well they might consider that OFFENSIVE.
If I'm trying my hardest not to be a (censored), I have usually found that I cause LESS offense. I can gently usher a woman carrying a baby in front of me even if I'm in a hurry, and that's usually better (and feels better) than BEING a "censored." Also, if I offend someone inadvertently, the move is much better if I can say, "Oh, I'll argue my VALUES, darn it," or I can leave said person's values alone, and not be a (censored.)
Getting the government to not be a (censored)??
We'd need to begin anew.
Anna