I truly do feel bad for the kids today. They have no idea as to all the fun they are missing out on. During the summer we came in for meals and bed time
So true... I am always amazed at how things change. Around here, we get radio PSAs to take your kids to the "forest" for parents, as if the idea of taking them to a park is somehow novel.... Also, given it's AZ, it takes about 45 minutes drive from my location to GET to a forest, so the "I wanna swim, I wanna climb trees, are we there yet?" "Why yes, son, we are!" message is a little unconvincing... But, I thought it was pretty SAD when parents are invited to transport their kids to the forest, rather than have them just play online. I too was one who could go amuse myself wherever, whenever. That worked out great while in Sydney and I would ride my "adopted" horse all over the place, or even get on trains to go to the beach after school, etc. Then we moved to the US, and my parents got all freaky about "crime" and whatnot, LOL, that's when I took up biking for serious, as I wasn't old enough to drive but needed to get out of my house, badly. I'd regularly bike to Mt. Vernon and back from Potoamc, it was an over 100 mile ride, and kept me busy all day (by that age, my parents were HAPPY for me to be out of the house whenever, LOL).
I also remember my little brother and his pal setting GI Joes *on fire* and the school (which was a Waldorf school, for those of you who may know them, kinda a freaky weird art school) administration didn't know what to do as a) they believed in wooden toys for kids and actually thought my brother was torching them due to being plastic, not just being a Kid,



, and couldn't decide whether to punish them or admire them, they did end up being punished in the end, but very lightly.
By contrast, MY kid in a public school got called to the carpet (as did I) for being bored in class after finishing his work, and drew a picture of his video game-- I got called in for the "Colombine Treatment" as I like to call it (I'm not joking about Colombine, but this seems to be when the schools really turned on kids, for good) and I was most indignant and eventually the administrators had to back down, but seriously? This was middle school and half his friends were smoking.... various things... during recess? Surely there's more to worry about than a picture, there...
I'm glad my kiddo had lots of outside time, he also had *the best* daycare provider for awhile who lived on a farm, let the kids play in the stream and dam it up, as well as fighting with airsoft rifles and climb trees and swim and whatnot. She was the best, totally organized, Catholic, and had about 8 kids of her own, she somehow managed organized chaos at all times, and despite all this action, the only real injury my kiddo sustained was throwing a rock, repeatedly, into the air until it finally hit him on the head. I only blame my kiddo for this, though he continues to maintain to this day, "I do not regret it, Mom." I was so happy to have found her, and we took the kid everyplace we travelled that was fun, including my honeymoon actually. My ex had to suddenly go to rehab and my mom was travelling.... That ended up the best trip ever, and the husband was very understanding about it.... 2 weeks traveling in a small car with a 6 yr old, LOL, it was really something. I don't think there's a state the kid hasn't visited, actually...
I don't run into so many kids these days where that is the case. I don't' think our newest generation are vegetables, but they have a LOT to learn about having fun, IMO, and that's usually not their fault.
However, it's interesting how automation and electronics are hemming us in, much like governmental interference in all aspects of life, I had to regularly "deprogram" my kid from some of the nonsense he was learning in school, it's truly pathetic. I wish they had focused more on math instead, despite passing the GED in 10th grade, I think my son did that with knowledge learned from his Private Catholic school through 6th grade. In a TOTALLY mistaken assumption when we moved here, I actually had my kid REPEAT a year since I was certain the curricula were different.... and they WERE, but not in the way I had expected.
I'm in a "privatize everything" mood ATM. Including e-cigs, I feel a private company would do a much better job with that than the FDA or anyone else...
Anna
Anna