I think I've figured out the problem with my coils -- I think it's because I was using the finer gauge wire, 30ga. Last night and this morning I did a couple coils using 28ga, and even though the diameter is pretty large, 7/64, they stay together marvelously!
Last night I was making one that I was going to try and use in a Kayfun Nano, because I've been having issues with the nano giving me a burnt taste, so I made it pretty high-resistance, I think it came out about about 2.2 ohms, about 11 wraps of 28ga on 7/64. Well, it still gave me the burnt taste, so I took it back apart and just used the full-sized kayfun 3-ring tank, and although it was pretty slow, it wasn't a bad coil at all; I was using a fruit flavor, so kept the wattage turned down fairly low, and even with that slow a coil at that low a wattage, it was still a decent vape.
This morning I thought, hmm, 28ga eh? so I made a new one for use with my regular Virginia, and it's 1.8 ohm; 9/10 wraps on 7/64, and it's really good, AND when I did the fire-release-press thing, those wraps stay together so nicely it's almost like someone who actually knows what they're doing made the coil.
Not sure I'll ever like the kind of small diameters that make it a "true" microcoil, they're so hard to wick properly, but as far as the wraps being compressed, it seems all I really need to do is use some wire that's not so flimsy.
As for what I have to do to get the nano to work right, still clueless. Think it's just a cheapie sub-par clone, just not machined very well.
Andria