@Frogzx, have you actually tried ordering from any of the vendors discussed? You might be pleasantly surprised and not have any issues. If you are worrying about this up front, don't. As mentioned, I've only had issues at Element
vape, and I have ordered gear from a LOT of different places.
Some folks pass through age verification at Element, some of us don't. Will probably be the same at other places. Only way to know is to try and see.
I would just continue your online browsing, select the products/vendors you want, and try to order. The worst that can happen is it gets declined, your card isn't charged. No big deal. Move on to another site at that point. Nobody is going to contact you to try to verify, it's on you to prove your age if you wish to continue with the order.
I remember 'back in the day' buying 'stuff' underage and getting away without being carded (in person). Now, at the local grocery store, the cashiers ring me up with the senior's discount (without asking me for proof of old age), and I'm nowhere near that, lol. I can look pretty rough when I don't shave for a few days. Just trying to put it into perspective I guess.
Seems kind of silly when you're older having to prove your age still, but that's the world we live in. The places selling to us have to protect their interests as well. As consumers, we still can choose where to
shop depending on how easy and seamless they make this process. I just choose not to
shop somewhere that makes this more difficult on me as the consumer. If the other vendors can verify my age, then Element can as well if they want my business.